Ok I love boys but I hate them too. I have a boyfriend but I like me exbf too!! What am I suppost to do?? Help please.:mad:

Follow your heart.

More info? Don't muck anyone about.

iloveboysbutihatethemtoo: WOWIE! I didn't want to tell you this but I just love telling some people things that they will love to hear and then hate the fact that they heard it. I didn't want to tell you because I thought you might hate me but then I realized you might love me for having put myself into such a position. I hate to see people treated like an old fan belt but love what they learn about other people.

You love your boyfriend but hate the fact that you can't jump the fence and ride the storm.
You hate the fact that you love your boyfriend and wish you could be with him and leave the commitment and honesty under an old stump covered with bright green moss but you hate moss and would love to find a better place to hide things.
Wouldn't you just love to sit down with these two chaps and just talk away. They will most likely respect you for that and at the same time you will have taken a giant step forward in being able to make your own decissions based on a brain your learning to trust. Never in all the Universe will you be able to find a better opportunity for personal growth and if you hate the thought then you have never loved anyone but yourself. Best wishes.

Stay with your new boyfriend and see where it goes first. Won't work too good if you break up with boyfriend to go back to xbf and he says forget that or it doesn't work out in the long run. Then you try going back to boyfriend and he doesn't want you back either.

You could do the unthinkable and do not date either one of them! EVER! Neither one of these boys deserves to have you in their lives - because you want your cake and to eat it too - does not matter at whose expense - you just want it your way. Someone will get hurt, at your doing.

You were not ready to start dating when you broke up with your former boyfriend. You still had feelings about this guy and instead of calming yourself down, getting your head on straight, you went for another guy. So now you are in the middle of the puzzle.

You could sit them both down and tell them that you like them both and cannot make up your mind. Perhaps they will make up your mind for you and both leave. Maybe one would stay and the other would leave. BUT you have to be honest with at least one of them - your current boyfriend. What you are doing now amounts to playing him.

How would you feel if your current boyfriend still had dating type thoughts about his former girlfriend? You would be furious. It works both ways here. Be honest and open and then be grown up enough to accept what happens. Girls who mess with guy's heads like you are doing usually get found out and it is not pretty.