Myself and my wife got 20 years marriage life after marriage she told me about boyfriend and she promised she never will meet with him ,Boyfriend family well known relation with my wife as she hadn't physically relation with him,

But I am always afraid with his relation because when my wife meet with his family she didn't feel guilty and welcome him ,When I asked my wife she always told me that she hate him and his family but I don't trust on her,His (Boyfriend) family is also my familiar,My wife told me she never met with after marriage when I asked about some quarry with her she replied me she was attracted with him on our marriage,When I asked her when we and his family meet some occasion why you talk with his family deeply why you ignore his family than she replied me she afraid " I forget relation with him and don't want to remember relation and I don't like to talk with him but there is no fault of his family

Let me know what should I do

Vicar

Vicar; Is it possible you hold within your mind and heart the strength to let your knowledge and your love carry this woman, her friend and family long enough for them to settle their ideas?

Do you have the wisdom to run from a fire?

Wisdom, knowledge and love will each take you to a different place and we all must chose from time to time. Best to you and the others.