:confused: [/B]So the girl I've been dating for a 1 1/2 years broke up with me because of some Jealousy& control because of my insecurities of losing her issues that I have she says she loves me, we have always had the strongest bond. She says she just can't take it.

When she told me she was crying and said its just as hard for her as it is for me and that she just wants the old me back. Her mom talked to me because Im close to her family and she said that she was worried about me and she wanted me to get help and her mother also told me she loves me so much. She is making it sound like she just wants me to get help.

But here's the catch She also is telling me she doesn't know what else is out there besides me because we are both young so how does she know if I'm truly the one and that she needs time to think about it and look. She also told me on the phone when I asked her my insecurites probably lost her for good "that theres a really good chance of being back together but she needs time" I asked her what's a little time a year? She said she didn't know but not to expect anything in two months.

She also told me last time on the phone that she does love me but she doesn't think we should not talk each week. So far we've been broken up for 1 week we've talked three times on the phone each time we asked each other how we've been doing is this normal? If she just wanted out wouldn't she make the calls short as possible?

Her mother told me she gets teary whenever someone starts talking about me with her and such so I don't know if she's saying goodbye forever and trying to let me down easy or saying I love you still but you have to get help before I come back?
I have already started to see a counsoler and still trying to see a psychiatrist at the clinic.

I think either way perhaps you actually should get help if you need it. You don't want to bring in the same thing if you guys get back together, or if you end up in a different relationship. Good luck in this, sorry I'm no help.