Well I met a man 3 weeks ago on line. We emailed, talked on the phone. I have met him twice,for lunch, he calls me everyday 2-3 times to ask how I am and just to talk. Tells me to call whenever I feel like it. (I had been with a guy whom was an alcoholic, womanizer, always staring and talking of how to get that one in bed, wasn't over his ex and didn't want long term, so I finally got myself up and let him go, was too unhealthy of a relationship for me) This guy is no alcoholic, calls me, doesn't talk of other women around me,over his ex and wants a relationship some day. The only thing is he is a sex addict, likes swinging and into group sex. I feel there are nice guys out there and the time will come for me. So should I ditch him and know there are better men out there and there will be for me?

Ditch him!!
I'd take the guy always staring and talking over a 'swinger' into group sex any day and really wouldn't want either really!