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debbie1234
Oct 30, 2007, 01:12 PM
I Don't Understand Why I Always Think Me Boyfriend Is Always Cheating

peggyhill
Oct 30, 2007, 01:17 PM
Has he cheated on you in the past? If so, maybe you are having trouble rebuilding trust. It takes a while when someone betrays you like that. If he has never cheated to your knowledge, then maybe you aren't feeling confident in the relationship. For example, I used to think the same thing about my boyfriend, who as far as I know has never cheated. In my case, I felt insecure because he is very outgoing and social. I am not as social as he is, and I worried he would talk to lots of girls at work and think they were more fun than me. I realized after a while that if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't be with me. Our relationship has gotten much better since I've relaxed. Have you been in a past relationship where someone hurt you? It can be hard to let go of those things. Do you have reasonable suspicions about him, or is it just a fear of yours? If you don't have good reasons to think that, maybe it's because you are so afraid of that happening that you think about it too much. I don't know what to tell you without more info. Maybe you could go to counseling for your relationship. Or you could talk to a good friend together about this. Hope this helps!

msprettiegirl
Oct 30, 2007, 01:31 PM
Are you cheating? Or have you cheated on him? Sometimes we reflect things we don't like about ourselves on to other people. Or it could be that he has cheated on you before. If it's none of the above it could even be your women's intuition that something's off. Are you normally a paranoid person?