Sometimes I find myself reminiscing when I see other couples. Other times I feel strong and confindent knowing that I've moved on.
Okay well it starts when I dated this guy for a month and three weeks I know it didn't seem long. Anyway in the beginng of our relationship I didn't like him as much as he liked me. Later on when I started to get to know him more I fell for him and his personality. He was my first boyfriend. After a month and three weeks he had broken up with me because he felt that something was holding him back from loving me. It broke my heart so much to hear him say that over the phone. I cried for nights wondering why he had just died on me and now sometimes wish he could love me again like the way he use to. In addition I felt worthless because I thought I had did better than his ex (his girlfriend before me). She dumped him for someone else, after all the things he said to me about her like when he told me he hated her for what she did to him and would never forgive her for that. He still calls her his best friend for who knows what reason. And I think he has feelings for her. However that isn't the case my question is How can I forgot about him completely? I sometimes like him and think about him but feel dumb because I know he's over me. We're friends now and I see him everyday expect the weekends. I don't like to have still feelings for him but sometimes I can't help it. I even tried to like someone else just so I can get my mind off him. A few weeks ago around the beginning of October I confessed that I still had feelings for him because I couldn't hold it in I had to tell him.
After the break-up we had still kissed like if we were dating but knew it wasn't right to because we were not dating anymore.
But now its been already three months ago and I still like him somehow.
I know if I saw him with someone else I'd get sad and jealous of the fact he moved on faster than I did.
So I want to get over him completely:(
But how can I?

Everyone still has some feelings towards there exs! No matter what they say! And especially if it's there first! If he does find someone else hun just try to be happy for him its good still to be friends id rather have him in my life as a friend than not at all! And in time ul get over him and find someone else
Hope this helps a little!

Jemz xx

I know I notice that also
Its really dumb & feel stupid
When I even say it :/

Nah its not dumb its feelings you can't help your feelings hun! X

I feel better now
He's even confused of his own love life
But I think
Ill get over him for sure now (:

Sometimes I find myself reminiscing when I see other couples. Other times I feel strong and confindent knowing that I've moved on.
Okay well it starts off when I dated this guy for a month and three weeks I know it didn't seem long. Anyways in the beginng of our relationship I didn't like him as much as he liked me. Later on when I started to get to know him more I fell for him and his personality. He was my first boyfriend. After a month and three weeks he had broken up with me because he felt that something was holding him back from loving me. It broke my heart so much to hear him say that over the phone. I cried for nights wondering why he had just died on me and now sometimes wish he could love me again like the way he use to. In addition I felt worthless because I thought I had did better than his ex (his girlfriend before me). She dumped him for someone else, after all the things he said to me about her like when he told me he hated her for what she did to him and would never forgive her for that. He still calls her his best friend for who knows what reason. And I think he has feelings for her. However that isn't the case my question is How can I forgot about him completely? I sometimes like him and think about him but feel dumb because I know he's over me. We're friends now and I see him everyday expect the weekends. I don't like to have still feelings for him but sometimes I can't help it. I even tried to like someone else just so I can get my mind off of him. A few weeks ago around the beginning of October I confessed that I still had feelings for him because I couldn't hold it in I had to tell him.
After the break-up we had still kissed like if we were dating but knew it wasn't right to because we were not dating anymore.
But now its been already three months ago and I still like him somehow.
I know if I saw him with someone else I'd get sad and jealous of the fact he moved on faster than I did.
So I want to get over him completely:(
But how can I?
Hello... you still see him during the week? Why? If he is over you... sounds like he is leading you on while spending his time on the weekends with someone else. If he was hurt by his ex, why would he call her his best friend? Sounds like he is with her again on the weekends. When he wants to get together with you, tell him you have plans. Play hard to get. If he sees that you are not available to him, he will want you more.

My boyfriend split up wivv me as well like 3 weeks ago, I cried myself to sleeep for a week and I just carnt seem to get over himmm,, I knoww whatt it feels like mates keepss tryingg to sett me upp wivv this lad :(
When all I caann thinkk aboutt is himm
Xx