I really would like some adivce on what to do... not the vagina lips the place where you pee from.. sorry I don't know much so anyway the one to the right is swollen and last night it was itching so bad... the smorniing when I woke up it was bigger a lot bigger then the one.. this never happened ever in my life... will it go down? I am scared to pee because t might burn did anyone ever have this happen to them. its not the vagina lips it's that part where if you get played wit feels good.. so anyway I haven't had sex in 2 months

It sounds as though you may have a yeast infection. You should have it properly diagnosed and get some medication for it. There are anti-fungal creams like Monistat that you can buy for this.