Yep its raining here too Rose it's the only thing about being on the coast that annoys me we get the wind and the rain before the rest of um lol

YouTube - Love and Happiness - Al Green (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vP-ujL88cMs)

The Mom song

YouTube - The Mom Song Sung to William Tell Overture with Lyrics (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxT5NwQUtVM)

That's hilarious!!

I LOVE IT!!

Cowboy... three of my kids and I just watched that...
Thank you very much!

Hello, I am not invisible anymore, do not want to scare anybody. Lol Popping in and out of no where. Lol Jk.

Anyway have a good night everybody.

Morning folks

Shhhh... be vewy vewy qwiet.

I'm heading to bed now.

(this is the part about not having a job I like--no bedtime!)

LOL I was about to say what the hell are you still doing up lady go to bed NOW giggle

Shhhh....be vewy vewy qwiet.

I'm heading to bed now.

(this is the part about not having a job I like--no bedtime!)

LOL That was kewt! :)

Morning Craig me dear how's you today??

Morning Craig me dear hows you today???

Top o the mornin' to you! Just peeking in on this thread before I go to bed. Hey, I'm a poet and I noet! I have a three day gig out of town, starting tomorrow. Won't be back until Sunday evening at the time over here. Have been really enjoying things on this site so far. Have made some friends and met some really great folks here and also "met" some people that perhaps we all wish that we hadn't! :( But, none-the-less, that is life...

Later...

Have to go to bed now. :)

Sleep tight Craig and I hope the gig goes well, as for the people we wish we hadn't stumbled upon there's plenty of them for sure but I keep the nice ones close ;)

Your always welcome in the garden too :D

Goodmorning everyone, Just saying a quick hello before heading for bed.

Morning all. Just poppin in while the kiddos get ready for school.

Hello, rise and shine sunshines... ;)

Cowboy...three of my kids and I just watched that....
Thank you very much!!
Ain't it just a HOOT! My daughter (kids 4 and 2) sent it to me.

curlybenswife,

I have this page stuck at your posts. Want to know why? .
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I have a wee grandson here for the afternoon and he wants to watch Bart Simpson pull his pants down! .
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Love him.

Good afternoon! Everyone!

1pm here in UK for the people across the water.

Rose I think I had an accident laughing, bless him at least someone appreciates my sick sense of humour ;) Have you got sun today rose too?

CBW... you know Connor still loves the frog in the blender, germil electrocution videos too... LOL

Sun? I think I spotted it today but I could be mistaken. Lol

Saying HELLO... and good day to all here in the garden... and good night to Synn...
CBW, didn't you go to see the midwife today?

Tee hee bless Connor that was funny that evening when I introduced you to them giggle, Rose its been really lovely here today, Start I did if you have a look at the pregnant roll call you will what was said ;)

Hello all, just popping in for a 1/2 hour study break!

/yawn

Good morning!

LOL you dirty stop up syn ;)

Ello j me deary

LOL, Synn, you just getting out of bed? I slept in. Got up at 6, ran the kids to school, took the car for routine maintenance, studied 3 chapters... Ah, but I was in bed by 11.

HEY CBW... Miss you.

Morning Garden Lassies

Syn went to bed when I logged on this morning jj she was naughty tell her of lol,

I miss you too darling xxxxx

She was naughty again!! Guess we'll have to spank her.

Hey Tus!!

Oh, I should just stay out of this!

And after the spankings, the ORAL SEX!

Forget the Secret Garden---then next thread should be called Castle Anthrax

Hehehehehe yep strap her down and spank her she is a very bad girl

Morning Tus xx

And after the spankings, the ORAL SEX!!

Forget the Secret Garden---then next thread should be called Castle Anthrax


I think you should be in Start's thread Pink and Black :)

LOL oh no not likely to many weird men over there ;)

Nooooo... I am trying to keep it under control... I will lose it all if you venture... I just like watching you naughties...

LOL oh no not likely to many weird men over there ;)
Thanks CBW... I appreciate the support:D
Max keeps checking out bart...
Sorry for the double post...

LOL oh no not likely to many weird men over there ;)


Ahhh OK point taken!

Someone pointed out to me today that there are 46 days until Christmas.

Good morning to all you sexy hottt women... or good afternoon!! It's FRIDAY!

Someone pointed out to me today that there are 46 days until Christmas.
Shhhh Synn don't say that outloud

I can't even wrap my head around it being Christmas... all the shopping, wrapping. I get very stressed.

Let me just get through the 35 + at Thanksgiving. I can't think about much more than that right now.

Christmas is Coming!

Do you hate decorating for the holidays?
Just don't have time?
Still want your home or business to reflect the holiday season for guests?

I am your solution!

Tree and Home Decorating
Gift Wrapping
Shopping


Ask me about any of your other holiday and decorating needs!


That's part of my flyer--I'm hoping that a lot of people want me to take over their Christmas duties--and will PAY me for it!

LOL I have a count down tree in my Facebook next to my baby ticker giggle I love it

Its nearly christmas woo hooo

The question is Synn, can we fly you in for your expertise? I hate doing that stuff! I would totally hire you to do the job!
CBW what is going on mama?? YOu hangin in there?

Oh, I hate this time of year. While I LOVE Christmas, the stress of shopping, do I have enough money, can't find enough time...

It's just so stressful for me. Finals are on the 12th of Dec, can't even begin to think about Christmas till I know whether I am moving on to next semester.

The question is Synn, can we fly you in for your expertise?? I hate doing that stuff! I would totally hire you to do the job!


My thoughts exactly

You always find a way to get it all done, but I have to agree, it certainly gets stressful, especially with those pesky finals. You will come out with flying colors and then be able to enjoy the rest of your holidays... I have faith in you J

Well, all, back to the studies. Chromosomes Genes, and anomalies... UGHHHH!!

Xoxoxox

Im fine shattered me dear, how's you??

Christmas for us will be good I'm going to make it as magical as possible and for the fist time in years the budget won't be tight its going to be fab.

Sounds like you are on your way to a fabulous holiday! I am doing pretty well thanks for asking... I am glad it is FRIDAY!! I want to go home...

Yeah... like I'm going to turn down a paying job where the customer ALSO buys my plane ticket!

Of COURSE you can fly me in!

You can also mention me to anyone you know in the Minneapolis area who might hire me, too--anyone really interested should PM me for my phone number!

LOL oh dear that sounds rather seedy syn giggle

Christmas is Coming!!

Do you hate decorating for the holidays?
Just don’t have time?
Still want your home or business to reflect the holiday season for guests?

I am your solution!!

Tree and Home Decorating
Gift Wrapping
Shopping


Ask me about any of your other holiday and decorating needs!


That's part of my flyer--I'm hoping that a lot of people want me to take over their Christmas duties--and will PAY me for it!!
Oh my goodness, what a wonderful idea, Oh man, people do that here in Oregon, let me tell you... makin money... yes they are.

The problem is--I don't really have very many contacts here in the Cities, yet.

I'm going to talk to the apartment manager about hanging a flyer in the lobby, though, and then possibly go over to the local shopping center and see if I can put it on their community billboard.

I think that it's a great idea Synn. You would make a killing.

SYNNEN, Maybe you should make a myspace page for the holidays?? I would so fly you in if I had the money.. I know a lot of people have their homes decorated for them, trees and all. Especially professional athletes (football) because they are traveling during this time of year.

Craigslist? Any where little antique shops... Do your house first, take some pics of what you can do, then post it EVERYWHERE! Good luck Synn, I hope it all works...

I actually HAVE a MySpace page, honestly.

I'm kind of private about it, though... maybe make a new one just for the holidays, for advertising... hmmm...

I've thought about checking out Craigslist, too.

The problem really, is that most people who have someone else do it hire interior decorating companies. I'm not that good, not that experienced, and not that expensive!

I was thinking about it more as a Mother's Helper sort of thing--getting the lights on the tree so the family can decorate it, or as a gift for a retiree some help getting the things they'd like out in their house that no one in the family really has time to help with.

/shrug... I've only been playing with the idea for a few weeks

That is an awesome idea... but maybe just like a business myspace page for the services you offer... separate from your private myspace page..

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Have a great weekend everyone!

J_9, good luck for the 12th. You'll ace it!!

You too Bluerose... hugs!

Thank you, I will. Been helping my grown son out for a couple of months - between job. Got a new job last month and moves out of my flat into a nice one of his own tomorrow. I love him but I love my space too. lol

Nice... congrats to both of you then! Have a lovely time with "your own space" I know I would!

A nice long soak in a bubble bath with a glass of wine is on the agenda. No one knocking on the door to get into the loo or to check that I haven't drowned because "You've been in there for ages!" lol

Oh man what I would give for a day with no knocks on the door Bluerose!
I would give a lot for a day like that!

Wow spankings Christmas and Oral sex?? MY 3 favorite things :D... I always miss the best convos.

Oh man Al... I stayed out of all three of those ones... Goodness Al... hope you are great!

Can someone please tell me about oral sex? You see, I have these bumps on my vagina, I am a virgin, well... born again, and I have these bumps. Could it be from shaving?

Spankings, oral sex, Christmas cake, bubble baths with chilled wine…. I think we are in for a great Christmas. :p

How about I SHOW you about oral sex?

After you go to the doctor, of course.

Ahh, been to the doc Synn... I worked there yesterday, blush blush... come on over... King size bed...

Oops this is a continuation of our MSN conversation isn't it?

Hahaha you two honestly I'm sat here eating bannanas and toffee sauce ;)

You just had to mention bananas...

Where is my Synner? I want my Synner? Now, I want her now!!

Bel Biv DeVoe?

I'm making dinner, woman!

Since I don't have a job, I do have more chores around the place.

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Have a great weekend everyone!


J_9, good luck for the 12th. You'll ace it!!



You too, blue. Your choice of such a super,glowing message reflects what type of person you are. You just want so much peace and love in this world and willingly search those out who need a little joy. I hope you havé a wonderful and peacful weekend to fill up on some energy and take some time for yourself.

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I found a holiday I did not think existed only once a year... as a grandmother, its happy every day, and had to share it.
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That was a nice thing to wake and see hope you have a lovely holiday Rose travel safely xxxx

Synn I hope you got dinner sorted and out the door on time, and j my love my best friend with her new found back bone you go girl I loves you.
Chery darling how are you feeling??

That was a nice thing to wake and see hope you have a lovely holiday Rose travel safely xxxx

Synn i hope you got dinner sorted and out the door on time, and j my love my best friend with her new found back bone you go girl i loves you.
Chery darling how are you feeling????

Feeling great! good medication, good friends, and went out to dinner last night. I am playing with this new laptop that I got from a friend and guess what... I did my first wireless lan connection, from one PC to this laptop, and it is working - so proud of myself. I'm being challenged by the Vista OS in german right now, but you know me, I like a challenge.

Just got off the phone with Jaime, we talked for an hour and we are going to get together again tomorrow. I'm physically worn out right now, but that's nothing new, so as long as I am mentally good to go, I'm happy. The meds help keep the muscle and bone pains at a tolerable level, and don't mess up my mind, so that's just the way I hope it stays for as long as possible. I've got plans and taking each one at a time, and feel good when I'm done with them.

The only thing I feel bad about right now is that I don't post on too many relationship problems right now due to other priorities, but I will get back to them. I do check them out and know that AMHD folks are doing so good that I don't feel too guilty.

Hope everyone is doing well and having a good weekend.

Love,
Chery

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Chery,

Thank you so much for that.

I'm off in a couple of hours. See you soon.

Thanks for the best wishes, curlybenswife.


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Hope all is well with everyone.

Little Cheeks is getting brave and starting to walk on his own. Oh my.

Joe

LMAO what lovely news Joe nothing at all is safe now giggle

Happy Sunday to you all We have spent the day recovering from a firework party last night :D

Ohhh, why fireworks? Party? What? No invitations?

We celebrate something you americans don't lol its called guy fawkes night it's a english tradition.

What is it exactly?

Guy Fawkes and Bonfire Night (http://www.bonefire.org/guy/index.php)

He tried to blow up parliament so now every year on the 5th of nov we celebrate it or in our case yesterday as the 5th was a Monday lol

Ah ha, well thanks for letting me know. Sounds like a party!

Always is ;) never very quiet either lol

Nice... sounds wonderful..!

Guy Fawkes and Bonfire Night (http://www.bonefire.org/guy/index.php)

He tried to blow up parliment so now every year on the 5th of nov we celebrate it or in our case yesterday as the 5th was a monday lol

There was some sort of celebration here yesterday too. They had bonfires, and I bet all the firemen were on duty. It must be a rel. holiday here in germany, but I didn't bother to ask what type.

Hope you all enjoyed your Sunday...

I went with Jaime and Alexander to Kullman's here in Kaiserslautern - nostalgia just like the diners in the US, and Alex just loved it. The food was good, the music, and the style of the furniture, not to mention the best burgers in the country. Alex was so enamoured in our waitress. The three of us are blond, and she had long black hair, and beautiful dark eyes. He just couldn't keep his eyes off her and every time she passed he'd try his best to show off with his beautiful laugh and smiling eyes. It was so obvious it was cute. Ane he's only 15 months old. He was the best behaved kid in the whole place and this is something I'll never forget for the rest of my life. My grandson was on his best behaviour and totally happy with us today... Not bad for a 15 month old.. and he can flirt better than any man I met in my life - it was so cute and obvious p.s. repeating myself here), so we know that he will have a taste for dark-haired and dark-eyed girls.


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Aww, Chery you are so proud...
Makes me happy to hear of you having a nice time!
I love those perfect days too! Especially when everything just seems to work, and fit into place!

Aww, Chery you are so proud....
makes me happy to hear of you having a nice time!
I love those perfect days too! Especially when everything just seems to work, and fit into place!

How true girl. How are your days fitting you lately? I know I've been yacking so much about myself lately, but I am still here and want to know how you are doing. I will always check out the 'garden' no matter how ill or busy I am, so please keep in touch.

Love,

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Chery, my days have not been very fitting lately... but hope it will change soon...
I have lost a few kids that I am watching, so money will be tight till I replace them... :) So today I will make some flyers for the country store , school, and deli... and get it on craigslist too! Hope that does the trick! LOL
Hope all is well with you Chery, you know I adore you!

Oh, start.. I'll send you as many good vibes as I can. Sorry about the kids, I bet they miss you too. I know money is important, but I bet you take great care of them because the love in you wants to hug the entire world. Go out there and get some of those kids that deserve your loving care and help them look forward to a better life and values.

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Yes... the money is good, but those were the foser boys I lost... I hope they are getting what they need... we fostered them for 2 months. I am glad they are following a different path as it was getting to be way over my head.
At the same time, I know them well. I still get to see them one night a week for their moms parenting class...
I will be fine. Thanks sweet!
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I can't imagine what it takes to get all that stuff done. Man, I would need help to put my name on the right line somedays... LOL
I wish you lot's a hugs and love Chery, you got it from me, that's for sure sweet!

Well hello and night all... it's been a long day and I finally made it here but now it's time for sleep for me... so I'll try to be back tomorrow but I make no promises... lol. Who knows what tomorrow will bring...

Yes...the money is good, but those were the foser boys I lost...I hope they are getting what they need....we fostered them for 2 months. I am glad they are folowing a different path as it was getting to be way over my head.
At the same time, I know them well. I still get to see them one night a week for their moms parenting class...
I will be fine. Thanks sweet!
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I can't imagine what it takes to get all that stuff done. Man, I would need help to put my name on the right line somedays...LOL
I wish you lot's a hugs and love Chery, you got it from me, that's for sure sweet!!

Hey, my warrior, even if I don't hear from you sometimes, I still feel you there, and I hope you know that you are in my thoughts and heart too.

It is 6 AM here and I have not slept yet, and will play a game as soon as I log off. Got to do some things to get my mind somewhere else a bit..

Night,night.
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I got a job!!!

Yeah Synnen... Good girl... what is it? Christmas or something else.
Relief for you... Aww, so nice to hear! You deserve a little relief! Sigh!

I got a job!!!


Rock on Girlie!! Good for you.

Woooo Hooo well done synn my ickle hunny id crack a bottle open but I'm not allowed :D

It's a temp position, but better than nothing.

I'll be filing! Woohoo!

But... I won't be near a computer during the day, starting tomorrow. You'll all have to keep an eye on things for me!

Congrats Synnen...

Congrats synn

Thanks you.

I'm kind of sorry to leave behind the role of housewife/slacker, though!

I got a job!!!


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Yay Synn! Congrats to you!

I got a job!!!

Many congratulations on getting your new job, Synn! :)

I have a question do you guys prefer in meaningless drivel as conversation or something that actually has real meaning?

I like both depending on my mood, but I don't think I count, as I only chime in every so often now a days... lol... I just happened to log on and see your post :)

I like both too... The meaningless drivel tends to get me through my day and the meaningful drivel helps me get back to ground zero with my thoughts and views...

The meaningless crap does my head in to be honest hense why I haven't been saying good morning here every day there's just no flipping need to talk trash all the time lol

Meaningless conversation distracts me from my daily worries and frustrations. It can be very helpful in keeping my spirits up. Meaningful conversation allows me to process all of my thoughts and emotions in regards to my fears and daily conflicts. It helps me to learn learn and grow intellectually.

I understand what you all mean but don't you find it pretty sad that you need it constantly in your life I've had a lot of time to reflect these last few weeks and I have to say its great occasionally but on a daily basis is just scary it made me see what I was trying to shut out and not actually deal with.

Yes I think you are right CBW, it is definitely a way of distracting yourself from what's going on in the real world. Sometimes we need that to stay sane, because if we focus on everything all at once, we get overwhelmed.. so I think by talking about random stuff, gives the mind a break. I too, realized that I have gotten caught up on here and I tend to neglect other things going on. I have been trying to be more focused at home and not allow myself to wander off on here. IT is so easy to do, so many interesting people to talk to. BUT, my real life does suffer when I am on constantly. I was away this weekend for my anniversary and so I took a break from here to be devoted to that. We did enjoy ourselves and I am trying to stay on meaningful subjects because there are a lot of issues going on in my family right now. However, talking in here and in P&B allows me to laugh and forget my worries for a little while. I am so glad I have all of you to do that with!!

I understand what you all mean but dont you find it pretty sad that you need it constantly in your life ive had alot of time to reflect these last few weeks and i have to say its great occasionally but on a daily basis is just scary it made me see what i was trying to shut out and not actually deal with.
Yes... I suppose you are right CBW...

Guess I'm having too much reflection time lol

Nah, you really are right, I know myself I had been on too much... Really...
And I only have a few open spots in my day now that I can. It is a good thing that my time is now limited. Youa re right CBW! Really you have refected well! Thanks for the wake up!

CBW you have a point. But I have to say that after working all day or even during the day I need a break from the constant thinking. It is nice to just kick back and chat. But, I can see what you mean too.

I understand that Tus and I'm in no way saying oooo you shouldn't do that I'm expressing my thoughts and I'm sorry if I have offended anyone But to be honest I'm actually past giving a dam lol

Oh no sweetie you did not offend me! I think you are so right. I was just playing devil's advocate. But I do have to say that what you are saying is 99% of the reason why I take a break on the weekends and come in AMHD fresh every Monday.

Yeah but you aren't here for hours and hours lol it fascinates me that people really have nothing better to do that to sit logged in here talking dribble as I say makes me wonder what the hell there hiding from surely real life can't be all that bad?

I have a question do you guys prefer in meaningless drivel as conversation or something that actually has real meaning??

As has been said, depends on the mood.

Any conversation between friends can be beneficial. Humor is always good, and meaningful conversation has helped me with a serious problem lately - thanks to you guys and gals, I have my scales leveled again and that makes this all worth it. I hope it works for you too, no matter what you have on your plate, you know you can always share it.

So... let's keep on going and enjoying the Garden. I'll look for some more nice flowers to jazz up the place.

Love,

Chery



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Yes I think you are right CBW, it is definitely a way of distracting yourself from what's going on in the real world. Sometimes we need that to stay sane, because if we focus on everything all at once, we get overwhelmed.. so I think by talking about random stuff, gives the mind a break. I too, realized that I have gotten caught up on here and I tend to neglect other things going on. I have been trying to be more focused at home and not allow myself to wander off on here. IT is so easy to do, so many interesting people to talk to. BUT, my real life does suffer when I am on constantly. I was away this weekend for my anniversary and so I took a break from here to be devoted to that. We did enjoy ourselves and I am trying to stay on meaningful subjects because there are a lot of issues going on in my family right now. However, talking in here and in P&B allows me to laugh and forget my worries for a little while. I am so glad I have all of you to do that with!!!

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CBW... Honey, your pregnant, and your hormones will do what they do, and this is the place for you to let them out and react without feeling guilty, so stay on and just be yourself.

There are some addicts, but I doubt we fall into that category.

MON CHERY!! I have missed you soooo! I am so glad to hear that you have been doing better. I was worried about you. You seem very positive and upbeat and it seems you have had some time to enjoy that family, that is always a great thing. Yes, I too need to seek refuge here from time to time. I don't want to become too dependent on the people here. I know for awhile I was getting too clingy or something. Now I try to balance things a little better. However, I consider a lot of people here my friends, so when I don't come on I feel like I am neglecting them and I miss them too. IT's hard. I never even had come into a website like this, or any chatroom before I joined here. At least most of the people here are well intentioned and helpful... LIKE YOU CHERY and CBW.. xoxoxoxoxo

Shattered... I missed you too. I don't look at all the threads as much as I used to but I will continue to visit the garden no matter how ill I get.

My family comes first now, and I still consider AMHD my 'cyberfamily' so you will see me on here until the last days...

I too just found this place while having a computer problem, discovered a lot more here and stayed. But I have not bothered with other forums because that's just not me. This is a unique place to be and I'm darned proud to be a member!

Start... whether you do the dishes and laundry an hour or two later, or let someone else do them is a choice you can make without feeling guilty. This place is not a gambling joint, nor a gossip corner (not really), so instead of taking your free time to read a book, you come here... there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We all have a right to have a special place to go. And, I'm glad you're here.

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We might not read too many books > they usually tell about the past, and are still interesting>> but this is more real, we get a lot of information here, and also share a lot, meaningful or not.. it's the present.

Ah but chery that's just it I don't want to share that kind of thing with utter strangers I've never been one to let anyone completely in unless there stood smack bang in front of me the internet to me is and always will be full of people hiding behind a computer there are very few genuine people out there and I've certainly questioned that a lot more since the bloody sarai thing stupid girl.
I will also say I'm pretty much the same temperament wise I've always been a hot head I was before I was pregnant just a lot more honest and I really don't actually care about what others think I never have had for the pure fact that if you can't deal with your own life why the hell should you try and deal with others yeah I listen and make that I do care because it makes others feel better for sounding out when in reality there are legitimately very few here I believe a word they say way to many cry wolf for attention and that can be from the extreme of lies like death as we have all seen that one possed not long back to the woe is me stuff.
Ive never been a sympathetic person I believe we are given our way of life for a reason and we are meant to deal with what's thrown at us because that's what makes us people in our own rights character building id call it makes you stronger and better people.
Im going to shut up before I really let rip lol And I'm not saying we don't need a special place to go as I've already said up there it just makes me wonder about there lives as to why the heck they feel the need to spend hours talking about nothing and its not just here I see it either.

You're right, computers can be used to hide,lie, and do a lot of damage. That depends on the user. The users are all diverse individuals with different values and morals too.

The reason I use a computer is due to being alone and needing to communicate with the world, finding out information and just plain sharing my thoughts and feelings because I thought there was nobody physically around me interested enough in what I have to say. I guess it all depends in the mental make-up of us all on how we interpret internet conversations.

All in all, it does continue to be interesting enough for all to give it a try. Just like everything else in life.

Different strokes for different folks, as someone said...

I still hope you like interacting with us as much as I do with you.

You are all taking this personally and that's what I'm getting at the internet needs to be kept at a level that nots personal for all involved there's a limit and I'm not about to let people past it I never have and never will.
Trust me if it were a personal attack the one in question would more than know about it, I'm just trying to hold a conversation that actually means something the reactions of everyone are interesting to say the least as you have all gone on the defensive just kind of goes to show my point really.

Not on defensive at all dear. Understand your opinion.

Don't know the motives of others, just wanted to tell you mine, because that's all I can go by. I'm sure there are many people on here with many different motives for sharing themselves one way or the other.

I don't take it personal, we are just communicating...

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Boo just popping in. Storm going on, no power to study. Good thing I had the laptop charged. YAY!!

Not on defensive at all dear. Understand your opinion.

Don't know the motives of others, just wanted to tell ya mine, because that's all I can go by. I'm sure there are many people on here with many different motives for sharing themselves one way or the other.

I don't take it personal, we are just communicating...

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Your one of the few I do understand and hell you have one hell of a reason too ;)

Don't you just hate waiting...
I get antsy when I want to do things and have to wait.. like for electricity, at the doctor's waiting room, in line at the cashiers. I just plain hate waiting for anything...

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Boo just popping in. Storm going on, no power to study. Good thing I had the laptop charged. YAY!!!

UUUUUGHHGGGHHHHHH yucky thunder and lightening...

Oh, I love a good storm, but not when it knocks my lights out and I can't see to study. LOL

Big big test on Monday, but I should ace this one with very minimal effort. Heck, I've been getting a "gold star" from the teacher for the past 2 weeks for thinking outside of the box when answering her questions.

Thunder and lightening is not too bad, but when it rains hard and there is threat of flood, I worry. I live in the bottom floor and there is no basement, so I would not want to wake up swimming.

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I don't even want to know how you got the gold star ;)

J I want a cigi please smoke one real hard for me

Oh, I love a good storm, but not when it knocks my lights out and I can't see to study. LOL

Big big test on Monday, but I should ace this one with very minimal effort. Heck, I've been getting a "gold star" from the teacher for the past 2 weeks for thinking outside of the box when answering her questions.

Did you forget where you put the candles again? That's OK, Janine, I know you'll do great and you can use a break whenever you get one.

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Ah, but candlelight is not kind to my old eyes, so I'm just taking a break now.

I'll smoke one for you CBW sweetie...

It's raining cats and dogs right now, can't even see across the street.

i dont even want to know how you got the gold star ;)

J i want a cigi please smoke one real hard for me

If you like Camel, I just lit one up..

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Marlboro Red for me...

Just wondering... anyone have time to ever watch Boston Legal?

I think that's just one hilarious cast-filled show .

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I'm into Menthol.

Okay, now I'm not happy. I'm all alone in the house and we got tornados

I watch a wonderful show called "Starts House" now that is funny... LOL It starts at 5 am and ends at midnight... Oh goodness... it sure does, wow!

J, are you serious... not good, what kind of shelter can you take for those?

Don't tease lol I love menthal drewl ben used to smoke camels lol

My fave is when a man has a tooth pick in his mouth and walks around when it ain't no thing... or when he chews his gum like a cowboy! MMM, that is good stuff there. And why I just said that, I don't even know... so I should probably goo check myself in to the hospital about a hundred miles away!

LOL I wouldn't bother start they will only return you :( I keep trying but the turn me away

Probably right about that, among being right about other things... Laundry is still damp and I am saving the dishes for the first big kid to walk in that door from school... LOL

K, I just cleaned out the closet under the stairs just in case!!

Start hun, are you okay? LMAO

No, no I am not. I have decided to show every single weird part about me, just in case I need to use this for proof to get me into the hospital...
Never mind... oh goodness...

LMAO she has been skipping her pills again j sort her out...

I am going to get pills you mean, if they take me in. I need them... boy do I ever
I say way too much

LOL loon absolute loon

Open the looney bin, I want in!!
J, seriously, are you all right sweet? Really you need to keep posting till the storm has passed...

J.. hope it clears up soon, before the battery runs down.

Start.. Starts' house is a very, very, very fine house, with two kids in the yard... gee that sounds like a cool song.

CBW.. it sounds like you're tired of waiting too.

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I'm still here and plenty of battery, but can't get through to one of my friends in my carpool that lives near where the tornado was.

Chery, there are five kids honey... FIVE I say! LOL
They all say... no wonder she lost it! LOL


I'm still here and plenty of battery, but can't get through to one of my friends in my carpool that lives near where the tornado was.
Oh that is no good. I hope she/he is OK...
Dang so scary. All we get here is rain..

The worst seems to be over where I am at, rain stopped, thunder is quieter... But I still haven't heard from her. I'm sure she's okay though.

I am gonna get pills you mean, if they take me in. I need em...boy do i ever
I say way too much

Darn, I just took my last valium. Why didn't you post this before I took it, I would have shared half. That's us, a day late and a dollar short, most of the time.

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Tee hee that's love for you willing to share drugs ;)

I have whiskey in the freezer... but thanks Chery... that is mighty nice to want to share with me...
J, thanks for fixing my stupid double post...
And I am sure she is fine too... I hope it all passes with no one hurt.
CBW, have you ever had an angel avatar? LMAO

CBW having an angel avatar? OMG, yeah right!!

Chery, there are five kids honey...FIVE I say!! LOL
they all say...no wonder she lost it! LOL

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Oh that is no good. I hope she/he is ok....
dang so scary. All we get here is rain..

Nothing that bad in our area, thank goodness it's one of the safest areas in germany to live in right now and the drinking water is claimed as the best.
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Keep us posted J.. Hope everything turns out well.

CBW having an angel avatar? OMG, yeah right!!!

My pic on msn is a angel lol :p

That's for sure... angel!

LOL I'm going to bed before I get mobbed and stones thrown at me for choking on my halo love and kisses one and all and j stay safe huh I'm not in the habbit of collecting my best buddys from high winds xxxx

Well, the sun is shining again. YAY.

Night CBW!
Oh good J... so happy to hear it!

Sweet dream sweety!! I'll be just fine, I wouldn't let you collect me from high winds, I'd make Ben do it. My best friend is in no condition for that.

Glad it is over for now... I haven't ever been in a storm, and Davy and I yearn to be scared in one! LOL she is an adventurous girl, and when I am with her, I tend to be too!

Oh, I missed them living in Alaska. Actually we had one while I was up there, it was the first one in 80 years.

Well, radar looks like another one is coming. Temp has dropped 20 degrees in 2 hours.

Oh goodness J... I have no idea what the radar means but dang it sounds dangerous!

LOL, Start, you know like the weather radar the dudes use when doing the weather on the news? Hmmm, are you okay dear?

No... not OK, just off my rocker as they put it... LOL
I got it... I just don't know what low and high mean, I just go with the flow baby!! Go with the flow...

I just look at the radar and see green (rain) yellow or orange (storms) or RED (bad storms), that's all I understand. My mind is not into that kind of complicated stuff, I like other complicated stuff.

Like being a nurse? Sheesh just telling me where my own knee is hard for me lately! LMAO

Um, that would be called your patella, LOL.

Okay, I take back that this test should be relatively easy, just got a study guide from the instructor. They NEVER give out study guides. OMG, I think I'll be sick.

Oh well, I'll spend a little more time here tonight then I'll be off except for short breaks this weekend.

Good short breaks OK? I need you to succeed... I am counting on you being my suga mama!

I'm really going to hit the books hard tomorrow. It's kind of hard to get into studying when you don't get home till 1:30 pick kids up at 3:15 and have all sorts of things to do around the house. But tomorrow I will be all alone in the quiet.

Suga Mama huh? My hubby calls me his "retirement plan."

Too, bad I am stealing you away... I won't give up without a fight!
You will do fine, you are going to do great! I have lot's a faith in you... I believe you can... and know you will be fine! Suga mama...

Let's see, I have to memorize GPTPAL
Nagele's Rule
normal vs abnormal lab values and when they are drawn and a million other things.

But HEY!! I did learn why sex induces labor! Woo Hoo!

I knew the last part already... just never wanted to practice it...

Well, I knew it, but I didn't know WHY!!

It's actually TRUE!! I knew it was 21 years ago when I was pregnant with my oldest but I didn't know WHY it worked. Now I do. Hehe

LOL... funny how weird things are true. Sounds about right though, at least to me...
I uh... well, I just think it is right, that's all. You know why, I know why... LOL

In case anyone ever asks you...

Stimulation of the cervix (such as intercourse) produces a hormone called progesterone... Progesterone produces uterine contractions... Voila, you are now in labor!

Yes! Yes! Yes!. is there going to be a test on this, cause I have a hard time remembering things... If you haven't noticed... LOL

Man I always miss the fun convos... oh well. Hope everyone has a good night/day/morning... etc.

You too Al... hope you are feeling OK.. and the family is OK! Hugs...

How are you and Baby Al? How is Connor?

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How are you and Baby Al? How is Connor?
Goodd.. im in serious pain... I think its pelvic congest. But will be calling dr. tomorrow anyway. Can hardly walk. I'm on every two weeks now. Connor is good, he's loving mothers day out twice a week. Hope you are well. School treating you well?

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I love RW!

Do you know who his dad is?

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That's it now I'm mighty pi ssed off the letting agent wants to do an inspection and I can't clean like normal my freeking hands won't let me that's just about put the final bit of icing on my cake I'm ready to curl up in a ball.

I'm on my way to do your cleaning. I can study tomorrow.

Oh I so wish I have never in my life wanted to just sit and cry

Then just do it. Just cry... It's okay to do that you know.

Don't make my hands stop hurting does it and enable me to clean why is it when I really need help that family are bloody miles away and I am to proud to ask for help I've had enough I really have I'm to tierd and achey to deal with this crap.

I don't blame you love, you are so close to the end and the end is really the worst part.

Awww CBW hang in there!!

10 short weeks MAXIMUM!! Oh, how I remember those last weeks all too well. Begging the doctor to induce me. I just couldn't handle it with little J.

Hi ladies... Sorry CBW, I really am. I sure wish there was something more we could do for you... BUT J is right, a good cry would help get some of the stress off you... sorry sweet!

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!
You are SO GROSS!! WERE DO U GET THIS STUFF !~!? #@#e$56 f##k A## DOES YOUR WIFE HAVE AIDS

Isn't that a nice personal message to receive bens obviously stomped on there heads giggle at some point

OMG, how ridiculous!!

Weird... CBW, that is so weird...

LOL that's what happens when you're a wife of a teen hater lol

LMAO... I have a couple here, if you want I could send them to you and you guys can work em' to death... they need a lesson or two... or three... or four!

I can't stand most of the teens that get on here, they are so obnoxious.

Just like the ones I live with? Oh man, I am so in for it, I can tell already. I am not complaining cause I love them, but dang... it is stressful some days are never ending. My four year old is more mature than them some days!

That start does not surprise me in the least my neighbours girl just turnt 13 and she is quite something that's for sure lol the lad is 16 and he just grunts lol

LOL... yes, well, since Jesse came, it has been a battle... Very hard one! He is great in many ways, upbeat and strong... just a little talky backy... and it seems to rub off...

MMMMMMM well the kid next door punched her father in the face last night

Oh goodness, I have it good so far! Geeze...

Ok so I have quick little story about my friend's son.


He is in 5th grade and was given the puberty talk at school the other day. Then last night Amy was clipping his toe nails and giving him his cold medicine (terrible cold going on). She had him sitting on the bathroom vanity. He turns and looks at himself in the mirror and says.
"ey Ma I am getting a moustache.
She laughed and said "Honey just because you talked about it happening does not mean that you are going to start sprouting hair."
To which he replied "Oh yeah? Well Anthony has a moustache already."
Amy giggled and told him he was crazy.
He said "No Ma, he's Italian, so he is hairy. Just like Max.

Max is his VERY Italian step dad who is a bit hairy

She is a lovely girl but has 0 respect for her parents and I'm sorry I blame that on them there to bloody soft with her.

Yes, it starts here for sure...
It is hard to try and change someone's attitude when they were so mistreated though, That is why we are so stern with Jesse and our own kids especially with the extra nonsense!
Tus... that is hilarious! Oh geeze...

Hehehehe hairy like the italians bless, start I can't even begin to imagine how you manage with that scinario at least the girl next door isn't miss treated she is just a spoilt little mare.

A lot of teen scare the crap out of me..
It seems they are so lost, angry, and just plain obnoxious - society is really having a bad influence on them. They are so disrespectful on buses, in shops, etc. I wish I still had the recipe I used on Jaime, I'd pass it on to other moms - but I forgot what I did right.. just the things we did wrong we moms never forget.

Got a snow storm last night, didn't even notice it until I saw that crap outside. Oh well, there goes my wish of never seen snow again in my life.. but under the circumstances I'll endure it as long as I can see Alex enjoying himself in it this year. Larry was out on his balcony most of the night, he likes it out there and can come in whenever he wants... he's just a crazy cat. He's inside now for a while letting his fleas warm up before he goes outside again. I don't know where a house-cat catches fleas, but he found some..

I remember this time of the year in Japan, we were mowing the lawn and cuting roses.. That's what I loved about being an 'army brat' the traveling and I guess that's also why I never had to join a 'gang' in any neighborhood.

Angel.. how much longer have you got to go in the 'incubation' stage?

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Chery, you sure know how to make me smile sweet!

I sure hope so Start.. you deserve a few bright moments every day!

Just got a new prescription of Valium, so let me know when you need it. I've got enough now.. he gave me 50 of those nice little 10 mg. tablets. He asked me how many I take a day, I told him that sometimes 1/2 in the morning, sometimes up to to a day, depending on how I feel. He said OK, and placed his signature on the Rx. You should have seen the receptionist's face... I couldn't control myself, I winked at her and left.

Lately I have urges to shock people just for the heck of it, and I don't care about their reactions, but most are so funny that I enjoy myself more.

I told a neighbor during lunch she invited me to that I plan on making a T-Shirt iron-on with "Almost Dead Woman Walking" on it - that did shock her and I laughed and told her I was just kidding. It's amazing how many crazy ideas crop up in my head lately, but I'm just letting them go though stages and accepting them as they come. If I applied those crazy ideas to reality, they'd put me in the looney bin and I don't want that.

I still have my sense of humor!

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Shock em'... I think it's OK...
And I think you get a good chuckle...
I love it!! I want to shock people too!

Lately I have urges to shock people just for the heck of it, and I don't care about their reactions, but most are so funny that I enjoy myself more.
If anybody gets a pass for shocking behavior, I'd say it's you. Make the most of it!

I still have my sense of humor!
And a fine one it is, too. Shine it on.

If anybody gets a pass for shocking behavior, I'd say it's you. Make the most of it!!

And a fine one it is, too. Shine it on.

It feels great to know that there are some people who understand where I'm coming from right now.

I even made my son-in-law laugh today... when paying the rent, all he received was 20 euro bills because that's all the machines issued. I told him that now he can go to a strip bar and have a lot of fun... He put a 20 euro bill in my cleavage and we both laughed.

He and Jaime are finally divorced and I helped him through the separation, and we get along better now than we did before.

They found a growth at the stem of his brain, so he's in the scared stiff stage and since I'm past that, I help him try to cope. I will go with him when he gets his catscan too. I hope to heck it's not serious because I've really grown to love the guy. It's a shame that something like this has to happen to a wonderful young guy.

His &astard of a father is the one who deserves all the ill will, but he'll probably outlive all of us.

Such is life, so let's live it to the fullest!

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Such is life, so let's live it to the fullest!
I just really needed to repeat that... Thanks for the reminder sweet!

Hell chery you shock you dance you sing you dam well do as you please ill be the first in line to clonk any moron that says you can't too!!

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Oh my word how shocked would you be lol

Morning all!

Morning my love

I want to go back to bed!

It's cold and I'm tired!

How are you today my beautiful CBW?

I want to go back to bed too, and I think I am going to after I take the kiddos to school.

Synn, it's been a while. How is the job search going?

Tut tut shows how much our j here reads back huh syn she is employed lol now ;)

Im crap I have a migraine but that's kind of tough so ill shut up.

Syn its Saturday tomorrow babes ;) lie in time.

You think I'd be up this early if it wasn't that I was working?

Doing the temp thing for now... 3 week assignment.

I really wish I could just win the lottery.

Well, just shows that I actually have been studying!!

I have the migraine too this morning CBW. I'm going to get back to bed as soon as I can.

Lucky monkey j no bed for me :(

Just a thought but when was the last time any of you heard from Allheart?? I feel an email coming on...

This is a very rare occasion for me, hasn't happened in over a year. So you bet I'm going to take advantage of it!

Sorry ladies, sorry you don't feel so well...
I have to tell you that, I had the first good night of sleep I have had in over a year... I didn't wake up once, not even one time! WOW...
Hope you all feel better! HUgs and a smooch! Oh great now I am adding kisses, I better watch my arse (as CBW may put it)

Id expect no less from you start ;)

CBW, how's your head? I should rephrase that... Is your migrane gone sweet?

Heads vile eyes are killing me and I'm ratty woo hoo great combo huh lol how's you?

I hear you CBW, I sit here with a terrible migraine. I am stuck at the car dealers waiting on service. It's been almost 2 hours!! And all those overhead announcements are driving me nuts!!

Just being up is driving me nuts high pitched child and a moaning hubby woo hoo I'm so lucky

Awww... girls... I am sorry...

Sounds like an Estrogen fueled roller coaster ride from hell to me. I'm just a happy, chubby ole white guy that farts a lot. Can't beat that, eh?

Mag, that sounds so familiar... :rolleyes:

LOL wouldn't want to beat it I got my own fat old fart sat next to me and his arse is pretty lethal too ;)

I was talking about my dog:D , but you... my husband is hunting and I am free to roam! LOL
Oh I am crackin myself up today... :rolleyes:

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I didn't mean ROAM, I meant do what ever I want... you guys know that, right? Aww crap! I got to go...