Hi Everyone,

Let me start by telling a bit about myself, I am 33 and now single, I own a house, I have a good job and never been able to be happy in Love. I was in a relationship with that nice girl for over 3 years now. She dump me 2 weeks ago mainly because I was not paying attention to her and not showing any love for her. She is hurt to do it but she was not happy anymore. I never realised how much I needed her and loved her until she leaves. I told her that we should give it another try and I would take care of her more because I know what it is like to lose her. She says that we were getting on each others nerves and we were not meant for each other. I am devastated and disoriented now because I can't believe she is really gone. At some point in our relationship I wasn't sure and was afraid to really commit to her and now that she is gone I want her back. I must be crazy or something.

Buddy, I feel 4 U. But if you want her back, move on quickly ( or seem to have). No contact. Make out life is good. Dress a little better than you did. Get a different haircut. Give the illusion all is sweet. Smile a lot (hell I know that is hard).
You will either win her attention or find someone new. Either may not be that bad.

We had those little break up during all those years and now she said that I should have told her those things before, and that her mind is set and she can't change her mind again. She is not seeing anybody else I think. I think it is too late for us and she doesn't give me any hope that it will come back someday. Just have a hard time to deal with that.