1 final question. We live 30 minutes apart, 99% of time I go there. She says she won't come here, if I was a man I would stop whinning and do it. No sex unless she says and only when she comes to bed usually after I'm whale asleep, then if I can't turn her on when I'm half asleep then I'm worthless and don't deserve sex. If on my day off I want to sleep in and she has to work then at 5am the radio, hair dryer, TV, all on and I need to stop whinning. She is never wrong, and when she is she makes it her rule so she's right, and if her kids are dead wrong about something she will still take there side because I pointed it out. Its like a prison once I get there, shell amitt that she only gives 30% to the relationship and honestly thinks if I was a man I would shut up and make it work. AM I WRONG FOR WANTING MORE, OR can't DO THIS ANYMORE? I give and give and give, I go back every time, I can't go back anymore. Please answer.

Oh honey... get out!

Relationships should be teamwork, and she's not working with you, she actually seems to be working against you!

If she can't give more, then it's time for you to leave.

Wow! I can't believe you are still even in this relationship. She sounds like a very selfish person and in my opinion it doesn't seem like she even wants to be in the relationship. You are putting unneeded stress on yourself and you need to get out of this entire situation. Find someone that will work with you and will treat you the way you need to be treated. There is no sense in you being in an unhealthy relationship, especially a long term one. Get out hon!

She sounds like an ungrateful brat that is miserable with herself and taking it out on you!

A 39 yr old brat, in the past guys have cheated on her, beat her, and she makes it impossiable for me to stay. I can do, do,and do. If I ask her when is she going to show something back she says then don't do anything. Am away from it now, enough is enough

WAY TO GO ERIC! I am proud of you. Good luck with your new stress free life sweetie! Next time don't let anyone walk all over you or hold you back. :D