ronnie82
Oct 15, 2007, 07:54 AM
Hi ill suppose ill start at the start (always I good place he he)
Well I meet this girl she was a sister of a friend a couple of years younger than me, but we hit it off straight away. I used to call over to my friends house not to see him but her I really enjoyed her company. One day we kissed and it was great I knew I wanted to be with her. I soon found out that I had made a girl pregnant through a one night stand and I knew myself that I had to be there for the child but I didn't want a relationship with this other women I wanted the girl I was seeing at the moment. Anyway I told her and see said that she would stick by me and that she loved me.
While the other girl was pregnant we didn't really talk about her cause when we did she would get upset, I know now that this was a mistake. Anyway the girl had a little boy and I would not see him that often but I still did and then it came to the christening and I said that I was going to go and she said that OK u can go to the chruch but that's it and I said that I would have to go to the bar after with my family seen as though my brother was godfather and all. Then she broke up with me that was hard to deal with but not compared to what is happening now.
So we had broken up but still used to call and text each other and meet up and have sex and we went to the cinema and dinner and stuff but she still always said that she couldn't have a kid in her life but that she still loved me and didn't want anyone else. Now it wasn't just me who texted or called it was her sometimes too.
Well anyway I used to find out that she kissed others in night clubs but at the same time begging me not to do it and like a fool I didn't. But she always said that it was a mistake and that she wanted me and didn't feel anything for these guys.
We kept meeting up and she was telling me there was no one else then we didn't speak for like 2 weeks and we met at an event and she said she wanted to be with so I said yeah. And then over the next couple of weeks I was finding out off her friends that she was sleeping with other people while still sleeping with me and telling me that she didn't feeling anything foe these people. So I tried to get over it and move on but I used to get so upset over it when I thought about it and found out that she slept with someone who I used to be a bit jealous of but she always said that he was just a friend. Then I found out that while saying to me that she want ed to be with me she was saying it to another guy also (not the same guy she slpet with but she also slept with this guy) so when I asked her about him she just said that she was lonely and wanted to be with someone. I also found out that she slept with more than these in the space of a couple of months while still sleeping with me.
And recently she has been going to the pub with lads who she said were friends so I got jealous and a bit angry and she said that I had to trust her. Eventually 2 weeks ago she broke it off with me and said that it was my jealousy that broke us up and then the same day she did that she was off down the pub with those lads again and ever since has been out with them. I'm so hurt and when I have talked to her she keeps saying she is fine and that she knew it was going to happen.
I didn't think I would be writing on this but I can't talk to my family or friends about her cause they don't like her for the reason we broke up before.
Please some advice would be great
Well I meet this girl she was a sister of a friend a couple of years younger than me, but we hit it off straight away. I used to call over to my friends house not to see him but her I really enjoyed her company. One day we kissed and it was great I knew I wanted to be with her. I soon found out that I had made a girl pregnant through a one night stand and I knew myself that I had to be there for the child but I didn't want a relationship with this other women I wanted the girl I was seeing at the moment. Anyway I told her and see said that she would stick by me and that she loved me.
While the other girl was pregnant we didn't really talk about her cause when we did she would get upset, I know now that this was a mistake. Anyway the girl had a little boy and I would not see him that often but I still did and then it came to the christening and I said that I was going to go and she said that OK u can go to the chruch but that's it and I said that I would have to go to the bar after with my family seen as though my brother was godfather and all. Then she broke up with me that was hard to deal with but not compared to what is happening now.
So we had broken up but still used to call and text each other and meet up and have sex and we went to the cinema and dinner and stuff but she still always said that she couldn't have a kid in her life but that she still loved me and didn't want anyone else. Now it wasn't just me who texted or called it was her sometimes too.
Well anyway I used to find out that she kissed others in night clubs but at the same time begging me not to do it and like a fool I didn't. But she always said that it was a mistake and that she wanted me and didn't feel anything for these guys.
We kept meeting up and she was telling me there was no one else then we didn't speak for like 2 weeks and we met at an event and she said she wanted to be with so I said yeah. And then over the next couple of weeks I was finding out off her friends that she was sleeping with other people while still sleeping with me and telling me that she didn't feeling anything foe these people. So I tried to get over it and move on but I used to get so upset over it when I thought about it and found out that she slept with someone who I used to be a bit jealous of but she always said that he was just a friend. Then I found out that while saying to me that she want ed to be with me she was saying it to another guy also (not the same guy she slpet with but she also slept with this guy) so when I asked her about him she just said that she was lonely and wanted to be with someone. I also found out that she slept with more than these in the space of a couple of months while still sleeping with me.
And recently she has been going to the pub with lads who she said were friends so I got jealous and a bit angry and she said that I had to trust her. Eventually 2 weeks ago she broke it off with me and said that it was my jealousy that broke us up and then the same day she did that she was off down the pub with those lads again and ever since has been out with them. I'm so hurt and when I have talked to her she keeps saying she is fine and that she knew it was going to happen.
I didn't think I would be writing on this but I can't talk to my family or friends about her cause they don't like her for the reason we broke up before.
Please some advice would be great