I'm 17 and nearly 16 stone! I'm very conscious
About my body and I have low self - confidence.
How do I get guys to notice me and how do I
Get a guy to like me! I've felt depressed because
No one wants to go out with me so what can I do to change that?

I'm 17 and nearly 16 stone! I'm very conscious
about my body and I have low self - confidence.
How do I get guys to notice me and how do I
get a guy to like me! I've felt depressed because
no one wants to go out with me so what can I do to change that?
You have to be confident in yourself.. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl but you have to believe that first... you probably see other girls your age and they are popular and they have a lot of characteristics you wish you had... right? You can be that popular girl if you want to... all you have to do is believe in yourself... no one is going to give you the type of attention you want because you don't even give it to yourself... but your still young you have your whole life to think about boys and stuff you should focus on getting yourself together mentally and think about what your going to do when you finish high school. Trust me you don't want too much attention... I'm young also, and when I was your age I was popular and I got a lot of attention, but when you get all this attention from all these different people you tend to loose focus on what is important... I was raped when I was 16 because for one I was so caught up in the fast life being popular and being liked and I trusted every one... I also now have two kids... don't let that be you.. PLEASE... don't worry about getting noticed right now, don't worry about these boys cause they are young and dumb and full of-------- you will get all the attention you want and deserve in due time... do what is important first..

In her next post, she is 15 stones in weight, so if it is weight she is headed in the correct direction. Can you say TROLL?

What's trolls got to do with anything?

I'm 17 and nearly 16 stone! I'm very conscious
about my body and I have low self - confidence.
How do I get guys to notice me and how do I
get a guy to like me! I've felt depressed because
no one wants to go out with me so what can I do to change that?
The only way you will find someone is if you like yourself... if you are not happy with yourself then guys will turn away from that... so be yourself and don't change a thing for anyone.