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mtb90271
Oct 10, 2007, 02:57 PM
He's having an affair over a year. I have 3 kids. He claims he's trying to come back but I push him away meaning nagging him. What are the chances he will walk away fromme?

talaniman
Oct 10, 2007, 03:04 PM
He is already half way there. Can you provide more info please?

mtb90271
Oct 10, 2007, 03:08 PM
What do youmean half way where leaving? He claims he can't abandon me and the kids

talaniman
Oct 10, 2007, 04:45 PM
According to you, he has someone on the side, so he is a part time husband at best. How long have you been married, and why do you put up with adultry? How old are you, and him?

shygrneyzs
Oct 10, 2007, 04:53 PM
You keep pushing him away and he will not just be half way out the door soon enough. Not many men will stand for that treatment. If he claims he cannot leave the you and the children does that mean the affair is over and he is willing to have this marriage mediated and remedied? As in counseling, actual effort, no more affairs, and honest forgiveness?

Why do you think he saus he cannot leave you and the children? Do you doubt that he is sincere? Or is he wanting to stay because the light finally dawned in his head about facing child support and alimony?

Homegirl 50
Oct 10, 2007, 05:54 PM
He has already abandone you and your children, he is having an affair.. Why are you letting him go back and forth between you and the other woman?

Ledinai
Dec 28, 2009, 10:55 PM
He will walk away if you do not mean anymore to him, use this as a chance to be free of you, and tell people who ask that at least he tried. If he is contrite he will do his best to win your love back.

Gemini54
Dec 28, 2009, 11:39 PM
he will walk away if you do not mean anymore to him, use this as a chance to be free of you, and tell people who ask that at least he tried. If he is contrite he will do his best to win your love back.

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