I caught my ex cheatin we had a beautiful 9 yr relationship when all of a sudden she turns off me her family involved and all I go through her ph wammo I try to move on and have met a few ladies and struggle to keep it up been to dr I am fit and well so is it in the head!:confused:

I think its possible. It makes sense to me, but I am a female and 90% of getting turned on is mental for my gender.

And it is possible that you still love your ex and having emotional issues having sex at this point still.