OK... Thanks.

Were you aware of this behavior pattern before you married him?

If you didn't know about it, was it because he hid it or because you ignored or denied it?

If you knew about it, why did you decide to marry him in spite of it?

Im young but my mom goes through the same thing, end it now before it gets worse.. you have plenty more years left to enjoy life, why suffer?

I am sorry it is sort of hard to feel sorry for someone who knew about this before they were married and still married them, AFter about the 2nd time of doing this, while you were dated, you should have been out the door

And he is not going to change, you have the choice put up with this forever or at least till something really bad happens so he hits the bottom. Or you divorce him.

But sorry you knew what he was like, so why are you now complaining, was it "fun" while dating and you thought he would just stop?

Pack your bags and get the hell out! Don't waste your time or energy. There are probably a million people out there that are million times better who would love to make you HAPPY - not UNHAPPY. At this age don't get into trying to "fix" someone. Haven't you learned anything that you shouldn't be trying to change your partner (yes, this would be changing them). SAVE YOURSELF NOW!! RUN!!