Hello Everyone,
I didn't have sex before and I will get married soon.
I want to your advice of having sex of the first time.

WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED!!

Does your intended know that you have not had sex yet? Does she know that you intend to marry her? Do you feel that it is appropriate to run out and have sex with a woman during your engagement, just so you will be "experienced"?

Having intercourse with a woman one time does nothing for your experience level. It does open you to STDs, a furious fiancé, possibly a broken engagement.

Have you considered asking your intended if its OK with her that you run out an get some experience, before you commit to her?

Is your EEG flat?

Have you considered asking your intended if its OK with her that you run out an get some experience, before you commit to her?

I think you misunderstood, or maybe I am. I thought the question was more about what to do the first time, like maybe on the wedding night.

J-9,

I hope that I went off on a tangent. Matt, please chime in and level set us.

Hello Everyone,
I didn't have sex before and I will get married soon.
I want to your advice of having sex of the first time.


This to me totally sounds like he wants advice for his wedding night. Don, I think, actually HOPE, you read into the question a little too deep.

You've never done it before? Wow, get some climax control lubricant - and read up on foreplay - Oral Sex Tutorials at clitical.com (http://clitical.com/sex-tutorials/oral-sex/) - if you're great with the tongue it may not even matter how long you last during the actual performance...