I have this boyfriend and we have been on and off 4 about 9 months I love him so0o0o much but it seems like we are drifting apart... I don't want to loose him!! What do I do?

OK, firstly how old are you? I ask because if things don't go the way you want them to with this boyfriend, I know it might seem like the end of the world, but someone else will come along and possibly be the guy you spend the rest of your life with. Trust me on that, sometimes you feel like your in love, it falls apart then someone else comes along and shows you what love really is.

But if you really love with this guy, then have you tried telling him that you don't want to lose him? And working out together why the two of you are drifting apart and then how to remedy that? I don't really have much to go on with this because you haven't given much info. I don't question that you love this guy or that he would love you, but if your drifting apart then maybe both of you need to ask the question... 'are we really in love with each other?' but just remember that sometimes things aren't always meant to be, but you just have to accept it, learn from it and grow from it. That's what being young is all about. We all learn the hard way.

Hope that helps and all the best to you and your boyfriend