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boozing_angel
Oct 17, 2005, 08:52 AM
hi, I'm new here, but I need some help.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months, and I love him, and I know he loves me. But recently, he's been really snappy with me. I know he's been depressed, and tired. But he's always been loving to me, but for 4 days he's biten my head off. I've tried to get to the bottom of the problem, but he bites my head off. When I'm with him, he's caring, but because we live in different towns, we only see each other once a week, if that. I don't know if he misses me, or if he needs some space. It's very confusing.
any ideas?
X Angel X

christymoro
Oct 17, 2005, 09:07 AM
All right angel just ask him out straight how he thinks your realationship s going at the moment ask him why he's being so snappy with you this last few days telling him you are only concerned if he does put up a barrier again tell him reassure him about how you feel about him but explain that its not fair on you to be snapped at when your just being concerned. If he still goes off on one just be as distant back play a bit of hard ball ignore him and snap at him and I reckon he'd soon come clean IF he is annoyed by something or has gone of the idea of a realationship! :D

boozing_angel
Oct 17, 2005, 09:11 AM
I will try, I have tried before, but he snaps at me. I think he's depressed, but he's got me worried he's going to end it :(

christymoro
Oct 17, 2005, 09:40 AM
Let him end it then so love show him your not going to take **** when he's feeling bad.everyone has bad days but you don't take it out on people you care about. Always make sure to have respect for yourself and that others show you the same. Maybe this advice is rubbish but that's how id play it!

christymoro
Oct 17, 2005, 09:41 AM
By the way what age are you? Where you from?

boozing_angel
Oct 17, 2005, 09:43 AM
I'm 17 from UK, I'm going to give him until the end of the month to sort his hit out, after that, he's had it :( :mad: