Hi! I don't now how to say this... but here it goes.I'm been on medication for 2 years now I can now handle most of my daily routine. The question is this is my 2nd marriage which I'm very happy with my husband and child.The thing is when I was 19 years old ,married to a person he felt I would stay for the sake of money. I couldn't handle his extra marital affairs.
My own family wanted me to stay with him for the same reason(money)Of course their was a child involved. As the time came I asked my 2 sisters if they would help me raise my child which they also lived with their children in my our mothers house, They never gave me an answer,so I took the next alternative which was to get full cosdy by having the father's name remove as a fraud. Marriage papers filed in court. Stated he was from the u.s.a. He was never from u.s.a As I found out Thur my work and by that time I was already pregnant. As you see their was a lot of lying going on and I could have kept the child but my mother didn't want me to go get an annulment. When the child was born I never felt connected even to the day I gave the child to the father cause I didn't feel love,didn't want to take chance of hurting him I was never was ready for a child and the father and I had spoke about this knowing if we could never make it though our marriage. That his family was close among themselves ;which was better then I could say of my family.Divorce day came told my lawyer I want him to take the child-full cusidity.but papers came back joint-cusidity.I didn't want to struggle and of corse didn't want the child to struggle with my lacking of motherhood which I didn't have.3 years later I called the ex said I'm leaving town and met someone to start a new life. I never would considered that my new sister in-law would set me up to see from close distance to see my past, twice it was done to me.For some reason I didn't notice the ex he was standing arms length and never did I realized who it was.Just noticing an anger on this persons face until I return home 6 months later I realized who it was. And how was anger I was at her.I KNOW WHAT I DID IN THE PAST WAS A NO WIN SITUATION HAD TO THINK OF WHAT KIND OF MOTHER I WOULD HAVE BEEN AND THE Safety OF THE CHILD.Now seeing on the internet the child is well educated and loved.But now my sister-in-law also had spike my drink with some kind of hard drug when her brother and I were in town. My husband has know since we were married of my past except of child and giving the child to the father and also knows of the set-up twice by his sister.Now she want to get our teenage child to go over there and of course that would be in the summer w/out us.I afraid that his sister will set her up too.My husband said she'll not go ;but didn't tell his sister.I said if our child goes I go too. I chose to treat my past as an adoption and I was happy I made the right choice .and that was my discission- not my husband sister.So when she was here this tried to be coyed by asking any regrets w/out looking me in the eue.Iwould say I do not have regrets I only make discissions.

Is there a question? Your post was rather hard to read, I am assuming your primary language is not english.

Now the title of your post has to do with Bipolar Medications, but nowhere in the body of your post does it mention medications of any kind.

I would like to help you, but I really am not sure what you are asking for.

Lets clear this up. My medication is lithium I take this three times a day.
In my last post I stated my sister in-law is related to my current husband. I do not know why and for what reason she spiked my drink; but as far as for the ex;He knew that my decision was to walk away and not look back(he said to me ("you'll be sorry if you leave me.. and I said (I'm sorry that I ever meet you)(I said this to the ex).That was when I called my ex on the phone and informed him of my final expectations of my decision; I asked that my name be removed from any records including the child's birth certificate. And he also knew I wanted to start a new life (nothing from my past would ever come up in any of my discussions or decision I would've made in my future) And where I moved to (after the divorced and me giving the child over to the ex and moving out of my mothers house)Was my future mother in-law of course I didn't know that at that time. I worked; paid my rent, phone bill and brought my own groceries. I met her son on a trip she routinely took in the summer. Yes I wasn't ready to make a comment; we dated for 3 years which was a long distant relation ship. My fiancé gave me a ring and we still continue to date. I eventually moved up north with him. We loved our life and our child with all of our hearts. I wonder if this set-up that I was never prepared for or expected were the results of my ex's action that I chose to have a new life. [HOPELY I ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS]

You still have not asked a question. All you gave us was the story. What would you like us to help you with?

OK.. Should I let my teenage child see her relatives by her self and stay with my husband's sister in the summer? His sister has offer to pay for her airfare