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need help in Dakota
Oct 3, 2007, 10:34 AM
I am getting married to a man that has 2 ex's. With these women he has kids. They are best friends now and are abusive to him, me, and my children. Since we have been together he is no longer able to see his children, which he pays a lot of support for. They say that it is mine and my children's fault. I really need help I can't even go out in public with my kids in fear that they will say something to me or my boys. My boys are young but they know that these women are being mean and very abusive. We are getting text messages from them all hours of the night and they never have anything to say about their kids all they do is because, call names and say how horrible we are. I have asked them to please leave me and my children out of it but that just made things worse now they now what hurts me and they use it! Please if there is anything that I can do plese help.

excon
Oct 3, 2007, 10:50 AM
Hello need:

Call Judge Judy:

excon

ScottGem
Oct 3, 2007, 10:55 AM
You need to get an attorney and document the abuse and then file an restraining order against them.

s_cianci
Oct 3, 2007, 06:12 PM
You can press charges in criminal court. Does your fiancé have a visitation order for his kids? If so he needs to go back to court to have it enforced or have those women held in contempt. If he doesn't have one then he should go to family court and get one. I find it interesting how 2 exs of the same man would team up and gang up on his current fiancé. After all, he left one of them for the other, then eventually broke with the other one as well. It seems like their both angry and resentful at having been dumped by this man and are now taking it out on you.