[F]COLOR="black"]i swear guys are so incredibly clueless!!!my best guy friend whom i have had the biggest crush on for the past 2 months just told me that he thinks that he is in love with this other girl. its a good thing that he told me on aim because i broke out in tears im so upset about this whole thing but i dont want him to know how i feel about this because i just want him to be happy and i would never ruin his chances at happiness

please help me decide what to do about all this :(

To be honest with you, just let him go. I'm 19 years old right now and in my second year of college. When I was in high school, I was constantly in relationships. I never had time for friends or anything else so I missed out on a lot of fun. I think you should just have fun right now, hang out with friends, and don't get into anything too serious. It might hurt because you really had feelings for him, but in the future you'll look back and know that it was better off that way. Good Luck! =)