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Sep 26, 2007, 04:08 PM
Please spend some time to read this. It has really effected me, and I need help!
I went on a couple of dates with a lad from work. I am 19 he is 22. It didn't work, all he was after was sex. I put him in his place very politely and told him it wouldn't work, but suggested we stayed friends.
Ever since he has been a swine, to say the least:
He's sent me absuive texts like "f**k off i hate you"
Turned all the other younger people against me (so the majority ignore me now)
He has actual arguments with me on the shop floor
He is stirring stuff up to others, telling them incorrect information about myself
He has formed an opinion of me to be something I am not. Basically he is bullying me, so far it seems very pathetic and I know the responses are most likely... ignore him
But its more than that, he is making me look a fool in the workplace by telling people incorrect information about me. He makes sly remarks so that only I can hear. He tells me he hates me, then contradicts himself by telling me he doesn't know how to handle women and I must forgive him because he is insecure and likes me. Yet he then says that everythin he has called me he means every word and that I'm a sick and twisted with no life and no brain!
I think I have a brain, as I knew to escape this lad before it was too late. I also think the way he is behaving is pathetic and immature, and perhaps the only response is ignore him. But its because he is bringing everyone else in that I cannot ignore it, as he is making me out as a fool.
The thing is, he said id I dare report him again (which I didn't do in the first place, our floor manager sussed us out and reported him) he said there would be trouble, and I KNOW just how violent he could get. So I've basically been blackmailed into keeping quiet. The thing is I darent go tell my manager as I feel like I should at 19 be able to handle him, and its just not me to go snitching and involving other people over something that itmy fault.
The thing is I'm a highl emotional person, I'm letting him get the better of me, he's has knocked my confidence for everythin, I would not leave the house last week. I amnow petrified of seeing lads and my life just feels like its been shredded. I'm a nervous reck and shake whenever I see him.
Please help me
I went on a couple of dates with a lad from work. I am 19 he is 22. It didn't work, all he was after was sex. I put him in his place very politely and told him it wouldn't work, but suggested we stayed friends.
Ever since he has been a swine, to say the least:
He's sent me absuive texts like "f**k off i hate you"
Turned all the other younger people against me (so the majority ignore me now)
He has actual arguments with me on the shop floor
He is stirring stuff up to others, telling them incorrect information about myself
He has formed an opinion of me to be something I am not. Basically he is bullying me, so far it seems very pathetic and I know the responses are most likely... ignore him
But its more than that, he is making me look a fool in the workplace by telling people incorrect information about me. He makes sly remarks so that only I can hear. He tells me he hates me, then contradicts himself by telling me he doesn't know how to handle women and I must forgive him because he is insecure and likes me. Yet he then says that everythin he has called me he means every word and that I'm a sick and twisted with no life and no brain!
I think I have a brain, as I knew to escape this lad before it was too late. I also think the way he is behaving is pathetic and immature, and perhaps the only response is ignore him. But its because he is bringing everyone else in that I cannot ignore it, as he is making me out as a fool.
The thing is, he said id I dare report him again (which I didn't do in the first place, our floor manager sussed us out and reported him) he said there would be trouble, and I KNOW just how violent he could get. So I've basically been blackmailed into keeping quiet. The thing is I darent go tell my manager as I feel like I should at 19 be able to handle him, and its just not me to go snitching and involving other people over something that itmy fault.
The thing is I'm a highl emotional person, I'm letting him get the better of me, he's has knocked my confidence for everythin, I would not leave the house last week. I amnow petrified of seeing lads and my life just feels like its been shredded. I'm a nervous reck and shake whenever I see him.
Please help me