I have posted things about my husband getting off to fast.
First I want to say he works long hours and works 6 days a week.
I wanted to ask a few more questions and get some feedback on this
We haven't had sex for 2 weeks now. I have ask him and he will tell me tomorrow night
And that never comes. I have a very high sex drive, so I have been pleasing myself and just going with it. I know he is attracted to me. That isn't it. But I feel bad because I am having to do this myself. He just doesn't want to do anything. He feels more like a room mate than a husband. I talk to him about this, but I get no where with it. I am very careful with how I go about it very carefully to not hurt him. I do love him very much. But to tell the truth I want to cheat on him sometimes. Last week I had that chance with this guy I have known for a long time and I couldn't.
I am hurt by him not giving me any attention when he knows this is hurting me very bad.
Like I said before he doesn't last very long at all, so we use toys to get me off and to make it more fun. What can I do to get him to listen to me and understand that I want him ?

It is good to hear that you are 40 and still going strong. Your hus. Is actually tired and I think because of it he is not showing interest in sex, ask him to take some break a week or so...

Secondly I tell you a general example - 2 cars are going in one direction one is fast(ur hus) and other is slow(slow). So, you should start foreplay first and let him enter when you are feeling the heights... this way you can reach the peak at the same time.

You need not cheat any body... Enjoy baby...