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I am in 6th grade and like this boy named Aexander (alex... which is my name too... well alexandria but people call me alex too). Alex flirts with me so much its not even funny. And I flirt with him back. In lunch today I was a person apart from him in line and the person between was scott. Alex was talking to scott and I heard alex say "shes about as tall as her (as in me) and i said "huh? What about me?" and he said "I'm talking about my girlfriend" those words echoed in my mind...i have a girlfriend.....(why would he flirt with me if he has a girlfriend??) then he said "she goes to athena. She was supposed to go here but she didn't" i just said "oh... ". i've been trying to stay away from him scince lunch because we'll wind up flirting with eachother and since he has a girlfriend it would be wrong for him to like someone else. in H&C (home and careers.....the class after lunch)our teacher chooses where we sit (we sit where our name tags have been placed) but we dont sit in the same spot every class... alex came over to me (i was sitting down) and i said "your over there" which was totally across the room from me. he said "dang it I wanted to sit next to u" he paused for like a milla second "because your the only one I know in this class". he complaind and asked the teacher if he could switch but she said "no switching there there for a reason" (which there really wasnt)......all i could do was look at him during class. every so often when im not looking at him i could see him look at me through the corner of my eye. only once did we make eye contact and hen we did we stared at eachother and i smiled he half smiled. it was sort of awkward tho so we looked away at like 7 seconds. a couple other times we would make contact but it would be 4 a milla second then id look away and smile (im a chicken)....at the end of Home and Careers, he was getting his things together and i was on my way to the door. i had to walk by him to get out. i was walking by and he told me to wait outside because he has to tell me something. i thought he was going to like ask me to be his girlfriend but apperently not (thats when i remembered he had a gf.... i found out about them today so i dont know how strong there relationship is but idk) All he did was flirt with me then ask "what do you have next" and i said "science then math" and he said "ill see you when you go to math because social studies is right next to it".... all i said was "ok"... when he was going to social studies (after math for him) he came out of math and I was outside the door waiting to go in like everyone else in the class... I didn't know he had math though. He came out, he flirted with me (or messed around, same as flirting... he poked me and said poke... dont ask, were weird like that XD) I smiled and he smiled then we went to class. I told my friend aubrey what happened about him asking me about I need to wait for him after class and she said OOooOoooooOOOOoo... lol... then I told her what he said and she said that's stupid... I didn't see him in the halls after or when every one was leaving (D.E.A.R. is after math and it's the last class of the day and all we do is stay in the room that we are currently in and read).
I am comfortable around him. Were friends aleready but we have feelings for each other (I know he likes me... trust me). Alex likes me for who I am and not just because I'm pretty. I guess ill wait for tomorrow. Please tell me what's happening sooo srry that its so long its just that I don't know what's going on... I need advice

You guys are what 12? How serious can this be. You two have discovered the opposite sex and you're all giddy. Get your education.
But think about this. Could you really trust a guy that says he has a girlfriend but is flirting with you? What if you were the girlfriend?
Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.

Could you really trust a guy that says he has a gf but is flirting with you? What if you were the gf?
Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.
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However not only is thαt true but I don't think your αt αge to dαte [i'm sure your pαrents wouldn't let you αnywho]
Besides thαt I don't think you reαlly understαnd the meαning of hαving α relαtionship-- let αlone this little kid who cαn't even do his own lαundry yet he's going αround αll nilly willy.. seriously αt your αge right now is α whole bunch of crushes αnd "oo i don't like him αnymore i like bob..no wαit its fred".. you hαve so mαny hormones rushing through thαt body of yours! No reαl relαtionships would come out from this... let αlone from αny boy αt this αge.. they're pαnts "tent up" over commerciαls for godsαkes..

Stick to crushes αnd for god-sαkes this boy hαs α "girlfriend"-- more like plαymαte or flαvour of the week... stαy αwαy.. He'll dump her soon enough..

Like I sαid elementαry/highschool relαtionships don't lαst..

hαve fun αnd be good in school [αnd stαy in school] xxoo

Actually I had a girlfriend for 4 years from 3rd through 7th grade.. anyway. This kid is a playerr, and at like 12 that's not good, I'm sure the classes that he doesn't have you he flirts with someother girl. Not the best choice but since you like him and you say he likes you, just wait for him, if he does like you he'll ask you out.

What do 9-12 year olds do going out, eat lunch together in the cafeteria? There is no way I'd have let my daughter call herself dating at that age

actually i had a girlfriend for 4 years from 3rd through 7th grade..anyway. this kid is a playerr, and at like 12 thats not good, im sure the classes that he doesnt have you he flirts with someother girl. not the best choice but since you like him and you say he likes you, just wait for him, if he does like you he'll ask you out.

This kid is not called" player", she is a kid!

I can't believe what you guys think at your age nowadays! Am I old?:eek:

How can a 12 year old be a player, what can he do? What we have here are 9-12 years olds that have just discovered the opposite sex and now they want to play grown folks games. They need to be playing with toys and learning, not worrying about gf/bf stuff.
What parent in their right mind lets kids that young date?

Trust me, little kids now a days know so many things, I have lots of little cousins that are from 8-12 and they know what I know, and that's not a good thing. I say he's a player because he will go from girl to girl just playing around with them, flirting with them, I knew a lot of kids at that age that did the same thing. They end up alone and sad. Remember this was only like 4 years ago for me so I know about this.

Just sit and wait he might ask you out and he may not

By the way : when I was in 6th grade my boyfriend dumb me and 2 min later he had another girlfriend
Well he might be nice and he may not

Just wait and see what he'll do

By the way he might actually making the girlfriend thing up , just to make you jelous
Trust me it happened to me once before

He'll eventually ask you out
Don't worry

I think it is a shame so many really young kids are in to this behavior. Parents are dropping the ball. How are young people having the opportunity to do these things?
Off topic, I'm sorry.

I think it is a shame so many really young kids are in to this behavior. Parents are dropping the ball. How are young people having the opportunity to do these things?
Off topic, I'm sorry.

Dating a guy isn't a shame !

To think_pink... I thought he was making the girlfriend thing up too but I don't know... and to people saying he flirts with other people or he's a player... NO HE IS NOT!! Every time he sees me he flirts with me... his locker is all the way around the corner and down the hall from mine (which is far away) and every day he comes down to see me after his class... so I'm pretty sure he doesn't have time to flirt with other people... by the way on Friday everyone (my friends) kept saying to alex... "alex ask alex out" and stuff and he kept saying no to them (I would to because id be embarressed) but I don't know if he's saying no because he's embarressed or no because he doesn't want to...

So don't think he's a player

And my mom lets me have boyfriends and that's what I mean by "ask out" not ask out on a date but to be his girlfriend... its what the people say in my skools I don't know why either

You guys are what 12? How serious can this be. You two have discovered the opposite sex and you're all giddy. Get your education.
But think about this. Could you really trust a guy that says he has a gf but is flirting with you? What if you were the gf?
Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.

Actually I am exceeding in all of my classes in my classes and I'm not flirting like verbally so I don't pay attention... I look at him for 5 seconds the look away... that doesn't distract me... so I do have education
And what do you mean "what if u were the gf?" that makes no sense?
And my mom lets me have boyfriends just not go out on a date (well maybe I could but with my mom there)... what I mean by "ask out" it means to ask to be there bf/gf... that's what we (people) say now

actually i am exceeding in all of my classes in my classes and im not flirting like verbally so i dont pay attention... i look at him for 5 seconds the look away... that doesn't distract me...so i do have education
and what do u mean "what if u were the gf?" that makes no sense??
and my mom lets me have boyfriends just not go out on a date (well maybe i could but with my mom there)... what i mean by "ask out" it means to ask to be there bf/gf... thats what we (people) say now

Yeah I know what you mean by that when I was your age we called it that way 2 and I don't think there's anything wrong with that

to think_pink...i thought he was making the gf thing up too but idk....and to people sayin he flirts with other people or hes a player..... NO HE IS NOT!!! every time he sees me he flirts with me....his locker is all the way around the corner and down the hall from mine (which is far away) and every day he comes down to see me after his class... so im pretty sure he doesnt have time to flirt with other people.... btw on friday everyone (my friends) kept saying to alex ..."alex ask alex out" and stuff and he kept saying no to them (i would to because id b embarressed) but idk if hes saying no because hes embarressed or no bc he doesnt want to....

Omg he does that? Then what can I say? Sounds like he likes you :) and its just going to take time till he asks u :D

omg he does that?? then wat can i say ?? sounds like he likes you :) and its just gona take time till he asks u :D

Thanks for the help :D

Btw--i didn't mean literly after every class but like after 2 or 3 of his classes everyday but still, thanks

thanks for the help :D

Haha no problem
Good luck with the guy

p.s : he doesn't sound like a player

As far as I know a player wouldn't walk up a hallway everyday to flirt lol
So go get them :) ;p

btw--i didnt mean literly after every class but like after 2 or 3 of his classes everyday but still, thnx

same thing he still tries to , which is good lol
I wish a guy would do that to me too haha =]

Well I'm sorry, but I don't think kids that age need to be doing any of this. Aside from that, what kind of guy has a girlfriend and flirts with someone else's, and what kind of girl thinks nothing of the fact that the guy has a girlfriend and goes for him anyway? These are not very good patterns to be setting. By the time you are old enough to date, you'll think being two-timed or going aftre someone else's guy is no big deal.

Well I'm sorry, but I don't think kids that age need to be doing any of this. Aside from that, what kind of guy has a gf and flirts with someone elses, and what kind of girl thinks nothing of the fact that the guy has a gf and goes for him anyway? These are not very good patterns to be setting. By the time you are old enough to date, you'll think being two-timed or going aftre someone elses guy is no big deal.

Umm one question : did you read the previous posts?

There's a possibility the guy is actually making the girlfriend thing up so he can make her jelous
And don't tell me it might not happen because it happened to me and some friends
Beside if you did read earlier you'll see that the she said they just call it gf/bf they don't go out
Gosh read before you post

BTW as much as a 12 year old can be a player, if he has a girlfriend and is flirting with you, that kind of makes him a player, which means, he can play on you too.
But it's a different world now so maybe that's no big deal.

BTW as much as a 12 year old can be a player, if he has a gf and is flirting with you, that kind of makes him a player, which means, he can play on you too.
But it's a different world now so maybe that's no big deal.

Well did you think of the possibility of the person dumping the girlfriend but not telling or something ?
Besides like you said it's a different world
If you walk in my skool everyone is flirting and most of them got a boyfriend / girlfriend thing going on lol

umm one question : did u read the previous posts??

there's a possibility the guy is actually making the gf thing up so he can make her jelous
and dont tell me it might not happen because it happened to me and some friends
beside if u did read earlier you'll see that the she said they just call it gf/bf they dont go out
gosh read before u post
But the point is, what if he is not making it up. And what are you telling young kids about honesty when you say, "oh he may be just trying to make you jealous, it doesn't matter if he has a gf, if you like him, go for it"
That is not a good thing to be telling young people.

well did u think of the possibility of the person dumping the gf but not telling or something ?
besides like u said its a different world
if u walk in my skool everyone is flirting and most of them got a bf / gf thing going on lol
Oh well, if he dumps one girl for her, that makes it right. And then next month when he sees another one, he can check her out and then dump her for the new one.
Really nice patterns were setting here and it's starting at age 9. My goodness

Oh well, if he dumps one girl for her, that makes it right. And then next month when he sees another one, he can check her out and then dump her for the new one.
Really nice patterns were setting here and it's starting at age 9. My goodness

12 lol
Lmaoo older people get the gf/bf thing over too seriously but us don't anymore
And gosh if he does dump her then she won't be the only one that got dump like come on

You don't get it. Maybe you're too young.
It's not about who's dumping who. This whole thing is about ethics. About really young people being told that it is OK to go after someone even if that someone has a gf/bf or you think they do. That it's not a big deal to dump one person with no regard simply because you see someone else who you think looks better.
It's about allowing young people to start this type of pattern early in life.

You don't get it. Maybe you're too young.
It's not about who's dumping who. This whole thing is about ethics. About really young people being told that it is OK to go after someone even if that someone has a gf/bf or you think they do. That it's not a big deal to dump one person with no regard simply because you see someone else who you think looks better.
It's about allowing young people to start this type of pattern early in life.

When I said that "go get em " thing I meant it as when he's single not when he has a girlfriend
I myself wouldn't do that
I would back up
So bassicly if she's "gona go" for the guy she better make sure he's single

when i said that "go get em " thing i ment it as when hes single not when he has a gf
I myself wouldnt do that
i would back up
so bassicly if shes "gona go" for the guy she better make sure hes single
This makes sense. I still think 12 is too young to be "going after a guy", but that's just me

Homegirl 50 don't be coming on to me about all this I'm not the only one flirting here lets remember... he is to
And I'm not going after him like I'm hunting him down... I really like him and he shows he likes me to and I want to be his girlfriend...
And I don't think he has a girlfriend anyway... he could be lying to get me jealous!!! how many times do we have to say this 4 it gets 2 your head??

One more thing... we each have nicknames for each other... mine for him is chris because he reminds me of a chris that I know... and his for me is polka dot because of a shirt I wore one day (long story short)

homegirl 50 dont be comin on to me about all this im not the only one flirting here lets remember...he is to
and im not going after him like im hunting him down...i really like him and he shows he likes me to and i want to be his gf...
and i dont think he has a gf anyways...he could be lying to get me jealous!!! how many times do we have to say this 4 it gets 2 ur head???
I didn't say you were coming on to him, frankly I don't care. You aks a question, I'm giving my answer. First you say he has a girlfriend then you say you think he is just saying it to make you jealous.
All I'm saying is I would not trust a guy who has a girlfriend and then flirts with another. Whether I liked a guy or not, if I thought he had a girlfriend, until I new for sure, I would not deal with him.
You guys are babies, who knows what goes through your heads. This whole gf/bf thing at your age is a bit funny to me.
You are the one asking the question. I have been there done that, I'm old enough to be your grandmother. I understand what you're saying, you are just not understanding my answer,and that's OK. You're what 12 13 maybe?

one more thing...we each have nicknames for eachother...mine for him is chris bc he reminds me of a chris that i know....and his for me is polka dot bc of a shirt i wore one day (long story short)
What's the nicknames have to do with anything? But like I said you guys are kids and who knows what goes in in your head. If you like him and he likes you, fine. 6 months from now it will probably be somebodyelse for both of you.

What's the nicknames have to do with anything? But like I said you guys are kids and who knows what goes in in your head. If you like him and he likes you, fine. 6 months from now it will probably be somebodyelse for both of you.

Well don't be surprised if they last thought lmaoo I last with a boy at the age of 12 for 7 - 8 months so you never really know what's going to happen

Its really getteing tempting for me to ask him before he asks me... he always tells me to sit next to him or for me to save a seat for him. He always flirts with me. He pokess me when he walks by me and when I look at him he smiles and walks away... this afternoon when everyone was getting ready to leave, alex comes up to me and asks me to hold something for him... this may not seem like it's a big deal but he could have gone to his other friends but he chose me. In the library when we were on the computer (we were typing an "about me" poem) he would flirt with me wenevr we could... we never stoppped talking and we always laughed... but when jimmie (this 2 faced, immature jerk I went out with last year) starts saying o alex you like chris (we call alex chris when I'm around because it gets confusing, thus which is the reason I told what our nicknames were last post) and I said "no i dont... how come a girl can't hang out with a guy without being accused of liking them" and chris (alex) said "yea same with guys" and I said this like I actually meant it (I did but not for this situation) so now I think he thinks that I just want to be friends... but what really got me is when he helped me carry my things to my locker!! (the library is upstairs and were downstairs)
How can I get him to not think that I don't want to be just friends and should I just go for it and ask him out before he does?? Plzzz help

What I meant by hold something for him I meant he asked me to hold something in my locker till tomarrow... I think he's trying to get a reason to see me... maybe... idk

Actually wait a bit and if he doesn't ask you out then ask him if he has a girlfriend first and if he says no then go for it

p.s : I know that girls ask their girl friends to keep stuff in their locker but never heard of a guy so maybe he's trying to find a reason to be around you

I'm in sixth grade too I know how it feels I like this guy and he sends me mixed signs and the only thing is that he is dating my best friend and my other friend likes him I am so confused
If anyone finds help comment back please!!

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