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BiaD
Sep 13, 2007, 04:55 AM
Hi, I'm Bia!

I woul like to ask for help regarding a situation that I can't quite understand...

Ok, so I was walking in the street, and there was this guy doing a survey, he came to me as I passed near him. He asked some questions, and after 10m,( with a lot of eye contact) he asked if I would like to heve coffee some day. I said yes.

A few days after he text me regarding coffee. We met, had coffee, asked questions about each other (normal questions), walked in the park. We were together for 2,5h.

While having coffee, we had constant eye contact (almost locked), which was really nice, but while walking we didn't really looked much to each other. I was feeling attracted to him, and didn't want him to notice... because of that I think I may gave him "wrong signals :confused:

When it was time to say goodbye he said that next month (he's away for 2 weeks on holidays now) he will be having sort of a party with some friends, and if i wanted to go, i should text him (or he would text me, got lost there. Great hum???).

Next day i text him saying thank you for coffee. He replied saying he liked meeting me and showing me some places.

Is the ball on my or his court now? What about the party, should i text him or wait for his contact? (Since i didn't quite understand what he said)

Althought he asked me for coffee 10 m after we met, he's not a "player", he's really nice.

My problem here is that this has never hapend to me! I have no idea what this was...

Do you think he might be interested/attracted or is he just a friendly person?

I think we connected some how, but this is all to weird for me... What do you think?


Thank you so much.

:)

BiaD
Sep 13, 2007, 08:42 AM
Could anyone please help me?
Thanks

CorrieNB
Sep 13, 2007, 09:16 AM
Well there was some interest Im sure he doesn't ask every one he surveys out for coffee. Just be straight up with him I think waiting to see if the ball is in your court is not the right way to go about it steal the ball and dunk it call him text him ask him out for coffee. Whatever you do have fun and don't wait he may get away

nicespringgirl
Sep 13, 2007, 12:31 PM
Take it slow, and don't fall before you are certain.
Appreciate your friendship with him first.:)
You don't want to expect a relationship right after you meet a guy.
And from what I have read, he is interested in you.;)
To what extent, I don't know...
Good luck and enjoy yourself.:)

PS
walking we didn't really looked much to each other. I was feeling attracted to him, and didn't want him to notice... because of that I think I may gave him "wrong signals

Don't worry, you are not the only one who does this. I don't give much vibe to men either. Lol