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Basketballah21
Sep 9, 2007, 07:21 PM
I met this girl last year and she was in my business class. I thought she was the most beautiful girl in the world. We started talking a little towards the end of the year and I got the feeling that maybe she would say yes if I asked her out. This past summer she was looking for my myspace and finally found it and because I had like 3 myspaces, she said she sent comments to all the other ones besides the one I used. I asumed that she must have been thinking about me to have been doing that, but then maybe that was just me. On August 4 she asked me what I would do if she asked me out and I told her I would go crazy, and the next day I asked her out and she said yes. It was the best summer of my life and we talked everyday. When school started September 4 we met in the morning when she was late to school I gave her a hug and everything seemed cool. Later that day when we got on our buses she texted me and said she missed me today cause we couldn't find each other at the end of the day. I though that she really meant it. We talked about how we weren't going to be in any of the same classes and how we didn't have the same lunches and it seemed to dissapoint her. The next morning she texted me before school and said that she didn't think that she could go out with me because she wasn't sure she was ready for a boyfriend but she still wanted to be friends. I was so upset and I was actually a little depressed. The next day I told her that I wanted to tell her something and I planned on telling her how I felt about her but when we met I was only able to ask her if we could still be friends, funny thing is she already said that. So later on that day she texts me and asks if that was what I really wanted to tell her. I said no and told her that I've liked her for a long time and that when we first me I was afraid to talk to her and when I first liked her I was afraid to ask her out, and that I liked her so much that I would have done anything to be with her. She said she was speechless and that she was glad that I could build up the courage enough to tell her that. I also said that I understood that we might have taken things a little to fast. She say you and maybe if we get to know each other then maybe we could try again. I was wondering what you think I should do from now on and what are the chances that we could go out again. I really like this girl!

Homegirl 50
Sep 9, 2007, 07:25 PM
Just keep in touch with her and let things go naturally.

Ash123
Sep 9, 2007, 07:33 PM
One day at a time... I think you all have a chance still if you be yourself.

Miss lovley
Sep 10, 2007, 01:10 PM
I say continue talking to her but don't get your hopes up keep your options open
Make sure if you guys do not end up going out that she has no way to hurt you

That make sense?

saraispiel19
Sep 10, 2007, 01:12 PM
Okαy well hmm.. I think thαt αt first this girl liked you she wαnted some αttention αnd you know the whole thing αbout "summer love"-- it's stαrts with α spαrk lightens to fire then sizzles.. well this could've hαppened.. it hαppens it's normαl this is why it inherited the title "summer love"...

Being negαtive now.. she could hαve seen someone else in school thαt'd she'd like to "know" or like or "wαnt to be with".. however you cαll it now..

On the bright side.. she could just wαnt you to slow down αnd is α little freαked out by your cling-ness or bluntness.. who knows girls αre weird I know.. I'm one of them.. I used to one dαy one speciαl love [like the one your giving out] then the next be left αlone.. like I sαid we're weird..

In the end if she reαlly likes you she'll come bαck-- don't be smothering her becαuse she'll run the other wαy αnd think your α creep.. here's αn αnαlogy: it's like sαnd, grαb α hαndful you hαve it--but hold it tighter you lose it... keep thαt in mind.

Keep her close enough not to lose contαct or thαt speciαl-ness you guys hαve but not to the point your breαthing down her neck.. you'll do greαt besides your in high school right?-- there'll be plenty of other girls [i know you hαte to heαr it but it's the truth-- trust me] then you hαve college [which I trust you αre going to-- no school then get reαdy to wαsh α pool! Thαts whαt I sαy... ] αnd there αre tons of new experiences you'll pαss through-- trust me budd you'll do greαt- promise..

Good luck to yα <3