OK so I have a bit of an issue that I've screwed myself into that I'm not sure how to get out of
OK so its kind of hard to explain but I'm dating this guy that is in my group of friends and I guess you could say that when ever I'm dating him I don't want to be dating him and then when I'm not I want to be with him and I'm not really sure why its like that but it is.
So now I'm dating him and I don't want to be but if I break up with him he will be mad at me my friends will probably be mad at me but I don't know I like him more as a friend then as a boyfriend and I can't stand it
I feel really bad I wish that I could like him in the way that he likes me but I just cant.
What should I do about the whole cituation I like being single I'm actually kind of scared to be in a relationship
But how can I get them to understand my position without them all being mad at me?

You don't need to be dating anybody at this point. Break it off with this guy. It's the right thing to do. If he or others get mad, so what, they will get over it.
Next time make sure you know what you really want before you get involved with someone.

All you got to do is tell him straight up that you like him more as a friend and nothing more. And that there's no other guy! That's important. Just be honest with him, you can't get mad at an honest girl. Well I cant.