I really like older women-older then me twentys,thirtys, and even early fourtys. I'm a grown man but I got that baby face so when I go to try and talk to an older honey they response sometimes is I'm to old for you and mostly you to long.So my question is what can I do or say to these ladies when this happens?I'm 20 yrs old ill be 21

How old are you now?

Such a shame you left out us women over 50 and not yet 60. You are missing out on a whole generation!

Seriously, just because you are interested in a woman in her forties, it does not mean she is interested in you. When she says no, it means no. Leave her alone. There are many women who do love the charm of a twenty-something guy. But if you try and come off like you are God's gift, forget any woman bothering with more than an introduction, although I do not know what your intro line is. It would help to know how you approach a woman you have an interest in.

I'm married, so I can't really speak from experience, but it would creep me out for someone who is young enough to be my kid to want to date me.

You said it right, Em. Guys younger than my oldest child are off limits!