Hi.. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 8 months now.. I love him to death and he loves me to death, but we fight all the time. Lots over silly stuff.. its usually me who started them because of his past with other girls we hang out with I just think about it and it gets me mad at him.. I try not to but I can't help it.. what should I do?

Punishing him for his past relationships isn't healthy.

You need to find a way to let his past be his past or you need to move on. It really can be that hard, and that simple, all at the same time.

More info needed if you think itd be useful.

I do not think you both love each other "to death" as you put it. Constant fighting is a sign of an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship. You need to let go of what happened before you came into his life. If you cannot control your jealousy, things are only going to get worse and sooner or later he will find someone easier to live with. Some men think taming the shrew is a worthwhile effort but honestly, most men do not.

If you cannot get into some counseling about dealing with your jealousy, then please at least start reading some books or articles on managing relationships.
Inner Bonding: Relationship Advice, Relationship Help, Spiritual Growth, Parenting Advice (http://www.innerbonding.com/index.lasso)
DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIPS by Rod E. Smith MSMFT (http://rodesmith.com/)
Coloring Therapy - Elements of Personal and Collective Self-Sabotage (http://www.coloringtherapy.com/a_elements_personal_collective_self_sabotage.htm)
QuestForSelf.com: Alternative Health, Personal Growth, Psychology Books, Spirituality, Relationships, Articles, Human Evolvement (http://www.questforself.com/)
tame jealousy - Google Search (http://www.google.com/search?q=tame+jealousy&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-SearchBox&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&sourceid=ie7)

You should talk to yourself and resolve this issue with yourself not with him.. your going to have this problem with any guy who will be in your life.. you will just have to trust and let go of his past.. its not your past its his honey.. we girls tend to be y and insecure sometimes and that drives men crazy.. when you deal with a man try to think like one.. don't give him a hard time.. if you love him.. just be easy going and let go

Give him his feedom and peace, as you must deal with your own demons. This is your problem not his. Recognise you are not healthy enough for a healthy relationship.

I wonder if she is still with him. This post was back in August and we have not heard from her in almost 4 months.

Oooops!! I knew the coffee wasn't enough this morning, Thanks J