We would like to get married in the snow in calf but we don't know were to get married at
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Travel to some snowy locations (ski resorts, bed and breakfasts) and take a look. Many will let you rent the space for a wedding. You'll just have to make some phone calls to ask around.
California Snow (http://www.californiasnow.com/)

It snow's in the yucca valley California and also in big bear calif.