Haven't been on here in ages and just read all the things I wrote before and laughed at how hilarious what I wrote was :) talk about melodramatic and exaggerating especially the bit about life coming to an end and no future :) :) :)

Life is really great at the mo, having loads of fun, always out and invited to places, really catching up with my family, got a great job lined up, haven't had such a good time in absolute ages to be honest esp since my ex never wanted to have fun, lots of things coming up and plans, for the first time in a long time feeling really content with everything that's going on around me and everyone telling me how I did the right thing and how much more relaxed and fun I am now.

Reading what I wrote really can't recognise myself... its funny I look back and think if I knew ending it was the right thing why on earth did I take it to heart so much and feel and reacted so shocked about everything - especially about reacting looney and writing as if my world came to an end:) but since I've been back really realise what a good thing it was that things ended and how I got my life back and now have all the right, sincere people in my life back... I had such respect for my ex and really held him in high esteem but turns out he is far from the 'angel' I thought and have been really appalled about all the things everyone has been telling me about him and seems were holding back from me whilst we were together... still mind you, feel a bit bad for him, as its people who are his 'friends' who have sought me out, but then again, he chose his life, so can't keep worrying about him now!

Not sure why I came to write here, was clearing things from my PC and thought of this site and kind of saying good bye since won't be back... never been on anything like this before but at the time had really helped me vent as was in a situation where didn't have anyone I could talk to at the time since I was far from home and still I don't believe in being disrespectful and talking badly about ex's with people... so thanks for listening to me going a bit looney for no reason :)

Byebye

I'm not usually one to be online like this site compells me, but I personally think you have gotten a breath of fresh air. You should stay with us and I believe you'll continue to learn more about yourself, as I have.

Either way, good luck in your future!

Life goes up and down, try to keep it cool and be calm, rational all the time, so when things happen you have a clear mind to deal with it.

I wouldn't think what you had written is hilarious, that's just part if your life. You have learned from it or you have corrected it, make it a better performance. That's nice.

Be sure you stay balanced, and humble about what 's good in life right now, you never know what will happen next.

Take care.

Greta work their!!

I am glad that things are going better for you now. Just wanted to share. Don't really know the background to your situation. I came onto this site sometime after you did.

People can really grow and learn because of a site such as this. I have seen this happen to people on here in the short time that I have been using this site. I am glad that it is so well moderated and that the people who are regulars really seem to care. I really appreciate those things about this site.

I wish that you weren't saying goodbye. You know that this site is a resource for knowledge that goes beyond those things concerning relationships.

We all change and hopefully we all grow in the positive sense in what we think and do in our relationships.