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Anon07
Aug 20, 2007, 09:07 AM
Wow, I've thought for a while how I would do this and I am really quite nervous discussing this openly for the first time...

Well, first of all, penis size.. Im around 15cm erect, and from what I've heard this is quite small.. I think I've practically gone through puberty, I've had a very deep voice and all the other usual things from quite a young age, around 13-14.. I know that it may grow more with time as I mature that bit extra but could it be from masterbating too often? Can masterrbation affect size at all?

.. this leads me to my next question..

I don't know why I do it, or what drives me to do it, but I find myself masterbating around 3 times a day.. morning, afternoon(after school) and night.. In the morning I'm only semi-concious having just woken up and have VERY little control over what I'm doing.. But I have no excuse from the other two.. Is there anything I can do to cut down? I do want to even though its normal but 3 times a WEEK should do it? It does get a little painful when I get erect soon afterwards or if the seesions are close together..

Ejaculation.. I usually last around 5-7 minutes tops while being visually stimulated and I'm SURE this is not long at all.. I mean when I'm having this done for me by a girl its like 2-3 minutes and its so embarrassing I've had to avoid it for almost a year or so now. Why is this happening? Is it beacause I masterbate too often? Will I last longer with time?

That's all for now..

Thank you for reading and any advice on the above situations would be very much appreciated..

-Cheers

Capuchin
Aug 20, 2007, 09:15 AM
Penis size, absolutely normal, all guys will overstate their length, 6 inches is plenty enough to do the job. The average size is smaller than you think. Masturbation will not affect it.

If you're getting sore, then yes you have a problem and you need to stop doing it so often. This is a case of mind over matter. After a while you won't even think about it any more.

As for ejaculation time. When you're getting near, slow it down a bit. Nobody's in a hurry here... (unless you are in a hurry). You'll last longer and it will be MUCH more satisfying when it finally happens.

JohnSnownw
Aug 20, 2007, 09:21 AM
13cm is around average. Anyway, don't focus so much on the length, as it matters less than thickness. Not to mention that 70% of woman cannot orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. Also, you may indeed still grow, it's different for everyone.

As for your ejaculation time... Masturbating a lot can affect the quickness, as you may be conditioning your body to ejaculate quickly. When you begin having sex on a regular basis the time it takes you to ejaculate will lengthen.

Hope that helps.

Anon07
Aug 21, 2007, 12:29 AM
Thanks for the tip.. The ejaculation time tips make a lot of sense.. Ive already cut down having not done it all day and its actually quite easier than I thought it would be..

Thanks a lot.

Capuchin
Aug 21, 2007, 12:44 AM
You're welcome :)

wickedimp
Aug 21, 2007, 02:48 AM
Wow, i've thought for a while how i would do this and i am really quite nervous discussing this openly for the first time...

Well, first of all, penis size.. Im around 15cm erect, and from what ive heard this is quite small.. I think ive practically gone through puberty, ive had a very deep voice and all the other usual things from quite a young age, around 13-14.. I know that it may grow more with time as i mature that bit extra but could it be from masterbating too often? Can masterrbation affect size at all?

..this leads me to my next question..

I dont know why i do it, or what drives me to do it, but i find myself masterbating around 3 times a day.. morning, afternoon(after school) and night.. In the morning im only semi-concious having just woken up and have VERY little control over what im doing.. But i have no excuse from the other two.. Is there anything i can do to cut down? i do want to even though its normal but 3 times a WEEK should do it? It does get a little painful when i get erect soon afterwards or if the seesions are close together..

Ejaculation.. I usually last around 5-7 minutes tops while being visually stimulated and im SURE this is not long at all.. I mean when im having this done for me by a girl its like 2-3 minutes and its so embarrasing ive had to avoid it for almost a year or so now. Why is this happening? Is it beacause i masterbate too often? Will i last longer with time?

Thats all for now..

Thank you for reading and any advice on the above situations would be very much appreciated..

-Cheers
I can only echo what the other guys have said here. You're normal, don't worry... and from my own person archive of shame... Up to the age of 25 I used to get an erection in anything more than a strong breeze. Sexual sensitivity is good, you just might go driving a few of your girlfriends totally wild. ;)

JohnSnownw
Aug 21, 2007, 06:45 AM
Thanks for the tip.. The ejaculation time tips make alot of sense.. Ive already cut down having not done it all day and its actually quite easier than i thought it would be..

Thanks alot.

No worries, anytime.