How do I stay PG? I keep losing my babies at 6 to 8 week. I have been with my husband 12 years and we WANT a family. We have looked into adoption, But we do not have that that kind of money. Plus they did a credit check (why? ) and said NO!
~~SAD in TN~~:confused:

All adoption agencies require a home study. One aspect of a home study is a credit check. Having a history of frequent or current credit problem will get a person denied.
They feel that if you are in a financial strain without a child, you'd be in a bigger one with a child and financial problems would hinder the ability to properly provide for the child.

Or, it could be that you just don't have enough credit built up to pass you on their rating scale.

Have you been checked out by your doctor as to why you keep miscarrying?

Have you been to the Doctors and told them you keep miscarrying? I was on a website a couple of weeks ago and a woman had 4 miscarriages and then got pregnant and had a healthy baby.

You didn't say how many miscarriages you've had though. If you see your Doctor they could give you medication to help or something. Good Luck.

Have you had your thyroid levels checked? One of the unfortunate side effects with thyroid disease is the inability to carry a baby to term when your thyroid levels are too high or too low.

Also, have you have a FULL blood workup including levels of vital nutrients in your body. I had a doctor tell me once that half of all people who miscarry or cannot conceive have some sort of vitamin deficiency in their body. Their body cannot support the little life because of this deficiency. I would request that all of those levels be checked.

Best of luck to you!

Well how many miscarriages have u had?

First of all, I'm very sorry for your loss(es) and how terrible you must feel. I've been there and its horrible.

If you don't mind sharing a little more, we could probably be of more help.

What have doctors said? Sometimes you can lower the risk of m/c by improving your diet, trying some Rx medications, bedrest, etc. You'll need a full examination since m/c can happen for several reasons... sometimes right down to the cellular level with genetic abnormalities. Its also possible that you have some internal issues and a fetus is implanting outside of your uterus. Like I said, lots of possibilites.