I feel deeply in love with a guy I went to church with when I was younger. He also loved me very much we wanted to get married. He went in the military because he was older and wanted to travel and us to have a nice life. It also allowed him to pay for college.I was younger so I was finishing school,yada yada.. To make a long story short it didn't work out , I broke it off I was 16. So as we all know that's young.. then I married years later to someone else and after that didn't work probably due to me thinking of him often and my x husband now cheating,lol. We tried to go out but I wasn't ready to settlr down after coming out of a marriage,still too young. Now its 10 years later I still miss him I don't think he will forgive me and I am sure his family hates me. Because I broke his heart, He never married I have two kids and I want him back. I have never care like that for another man . But is it possible for him to look past that and forgive me? That's a lot too ask and is it fair? I am sure he still loves me, but I am not sure if he's willing to swallow his pride! Its asking a bit much. But I do love him, should I stay quite or what?? please anyone have any advice?

All you can do is try... talk to him and let him know how you feel.

Hello.

If he cares for you then he will jump at the chance to be with you as long as you are single and ready to get to know each other again. You met a long time ago and are two different people now, you need to take it slow and make sure your looking at now not the past feelings.

Contact him and let him know how you feel and I bet things will at least allow you to be friends and start over.

Good Luck
Dennis777

I would say its possible. My g/f and I dated for a while and split up due to her moving far away. I was with another girl for about 5 years, but like you, my feelings never changed for the first girl. When that ended, my x and I started talking again, and eventually started dating. We've now been together almost 4 years, and have a baby due any day!