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TRIZ
Aug 8, 2007, 05:58 PM
Hello everyone I need help.

I got involved with a relationship and all of a sudden she tells me that I didn't do nothing and that she wasn't feeling the same feelings I felt. She ignored me for like 5 days and finanally I had to call her anc confront her and asked her what was up between us. I mena the week before we were sharing ice cream and going out and having a great time.

Could someone tell me please what happen. She told people that she felt smothered and that she could ot breath and then she said she wasn't feeling the same way and in the same week she was flirting with some oither guys asking them for a date.

She would tell me that she cared about me and that she was thankful to God for placing me in her life.

What could have it been.

Fr_Chuck
Aug 8, 2007, 06:06 PM
Let me see, she tells people she was not feeling the same for you, and that she felt smothered by you. He was flirting with someone else and ignored you for 5 days.

Sounds like time for finding someone else to share ice cream with,

TRIZ
Aug 8, 2007, 06:07 PM
Thanks But I guess I am hoping

GlindaofOz
Aug 8, 2007, 06:08 PM
She told people that she felt smothered and that she could ot breath and then she said she wasn't feeling the same way

That is exactly what was going on. She felt smothered and didn't feel the same way about you.


She would tell me that she cared about me and that she was thankful to God for placing me in her life.
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She said this so that you would know that she appreciated the time you had together and it meant something.

However she said outright she was not happy and did not feel the same way about you that you felt about her. Its time for you to move on.

TRIZ
Aug 8, 2007, 06:16 PM
So let me ask this

You see we spent time together and we expressed a lot to each other. Does anyone think that she may change her mind and be open again to me...

I guess I am really hoping for this and really praying for this

GlindaofOz
Aug 8, 2007, 06:20 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-break-up-survive-101-use-you-wish-114179.html

Read this its about how to survive a break up.

After a break up everyone wants that other person to come back. It's a very common feeling.
It sounds as if she has already moved on and she has said that she doesn't feel that way about you. So no, chances are she will not come back.

Your best bet is to follow the advice in the survival guide and move on