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littlelady954
Aug 7, 2007, 08:16 PM
Im only 16... ive been with my boyfriend for a while and I just got over my period about a week ago. After that I've had unprotected sex with him. TOO MANY times... each time we've had slips... hes came in me more then once... condoms are an issue because we never have any when we need them. I've been moody... and I've been having cramps... but my period isn't for anouther 2 weeks... I don't think I can get pregnant because I have passed probloms with clamidia and a bartholine cist... (completly cured) could I be pregnant?
I need help a.s.a.p
nauticalstar420
Aug 7, 2007, 08:19 PM
Yes, you could be pregnant. Unprotected sex can get you pregnant, period. If you didn't have condoms when you needed them, you shouldn't have had sex. I know that's harsh, but it's the truth.
All you can really do is wait for your next period to see if you miss it. The symptoms you have described can be pregnancy symptoms, but they could be symptoms of other things as well. If you miss your next period, take an HPT 14 days after the missed period using your first morning urine, or get a blood test from your doctor.
I'm sorry, but without missing a period you can't really tell if you should start testing for pregnancy or not. For now you just have to wait.
jrb252000
Aug 7, 2007, 09:02 PM
If you don't have condoms when you need them either
A. Get a bunch and have them stashed everywhere or
B. Get on another type of birth control.
If you can't talk to your mom or another trusted adult. I would suggest going to a planned parenthood near you and they will be more than happy to help you get something.
Also the pull out method can still get you pregnant with precum that happens.
LearningAsIGo
Aug 8, 2007, 06:41 AM
... condoms are an issue because we never have any when we need them.
You're thinking of this backwards. Sex should be an issue because you don't have condoms. No condoms = wait till you get one.
don't think i can get pregnant because i have passed probloms with clamidia and a bartholine cist... (completly cured) could i be pregnant?
Condoms would have helped you avoid clamidia as well. Don't assume you can't get pregnant because of these previous health concerns. Only a doctor can tell you if you are infertile, and even then some people can get pregnant. Its very possible that this risky sexual behavior could lead to you being pregnant now or in the near future.
Sounds like condoms would be a great investment in your future! You need to treat your body better than this...
sacha
Aug 9, 2007, 06:47 AM
Since u have hard time using condoms when having sex, get on some birth control if u are not trying to get pregnant. And do u trust this guy u are sleeping with that much to not use protection??