OK so here it is yesterday I phoned my now ex boyfriend and normaly when I call I wake him up well I woke him up yesterday when I was talking to him I heard a girl in the background and then all of a sudden this girl starts phoning my house wanting to talk to me but I wouldn't talk so my mom got on the phone and asked what she wanted and she said to leave my now exboyfriend alone and then my mom told her to f**k off and leave me alone but of course that did not work so now I am in a lot of pain and I don't know what to do to get over it I think about it all the time

ok so here it is yesterday i phoned my now ex boyfriend and normaly when i call i wake him up well i woke him up yesterday when i was talking to him i heard a girl in the background and then all of a sudden this girl starts phoning my house wanting to talk to me but i wouldn't talk so my mom got on the phone and asked what she wanted and she said to leave my now exboyfriend alone and then my mom told her to f**k off and leave me alone but of course that did not work so now iam in alot of pain and i don't know what to do to get over it i think about it all the time
My advice for this is really short, don't take contact with him anymore because this will only make it harder for you and you'll feel stupid for recontacting him or even worse: dating him again. Unless you have an open relationship (where everyone does what he wants) it's really impossible to feel good with a partner that has already cheated on you, it's just asking for trouble and pain. Go on with your life and meet people or talk to people you already know, social contact is the best way to forget and get over such things of life.

Well, you caught him in the act red-handed. Now you've got the power to not call him and have nothing more to do with him. Let him suffer the consequence of losing you. He's not worth it and there are plenty of decent, respectable guys out there.

Examine all the reasons he is now your "ex." It sounds like you were only hurting yourself by providing him with "wake-up calls." It sounds like he has moved on and you should too. Life is too short.