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annick156
Aug 2, 2007, 08:18 AM
I have been with a man for almost a year now. We got along great and I was going to move to his country and live with him. However, he still has some issues with his ex wife and is trying to get back his children. He told me he was going away for a week to meet his children, so I could not go to him as we planned.
The first night I send him a message and I got a really nice one back. However, when I saw him on skype I tried to call him and asked him what was going on. He blocked me. Since that day he didn't reply my messages or emails.. nothing.

He has done this once before but he came back to me within 2 days and he said he was sorry, but this time I feel like I have really lost him. How can I get him back? Is there any strategy which might help?

Please help me, this situation is breaking my heart!

The worst thing is that I'm going to study in the same place as he lives, I won't survive seeing him with another woman!

Can I still get him back? AND HOW?

GlindaofOz
Aug 2, 2007, 08:23 AM
Why would you want to be with someone who ignores you messages? It sounds like something else is going on. Maybe he was fine with a long distance relationship but is panicking about you now being around him all the time. Are you 100% certain that it is his EX wife?

annick156
Aug 2, 2007, 08:30 AM
Yes I'm sure it is his ex wife. And it can't be scaring him off that I'm coming, we met almost every 2 weeks! It all sounds strange. :(

GlindaofOz
Aug 2, 2007, 08:34 AM
I can tell you what my opinion is and I could be totally wrong but her is my impression:

He has been lying to you about something in regards to his and with you moving there and being a part of his life all the time you will discover the lie. Typically when a couple has a long distance relationship the other person cannot wait for the move to happen, so I just really think there is something going on. Whether its him lying or him deciding that maybe he doesn't really want a "full time" relationship. Unfortunately, he's the only one who can answer those questions for you.

Kattalover
Aug 2, 2007, 08:38 AM
Can i still get him back? AND HOW?

Why would you want him back??