View Full Version : Is it that I'm not over him?
MisZGlamorousZ
Jul 28, 2007, 02:01 PM
I broke up with my boyfriend four months ago because I thought we would be better off as friends because when we were going out we acted like we were just friends. Well its been all this time and I still talk to him sometimes (as a friend) but he wants to be more. He got a girlfriend right now and I don't know why, but I still think about him all the time. Is it that I'm not over him or is this normal? I don't want him back but I just can't get him off my mind
Canada_Sweety
Jul 28, 2007, 02:06 PM
I would say that you need closure... and another thing, you more then liekly feel this way because you're relationship felt like friends anyways so this could take a while to get used to being just friends and not having what you had before... just wait a bit longer and you'll notice all the feelings fade away.:)
talaniman
Jul 28, 2007, 05:42 PM
Its hard to get over some one and make clean break, when your still in contact with that person.
GlindaofOz
Jul 28, 2007, 06:20 PM
The reason you still think about him all the time is because he is still around all the time.
There is a reason you broke up AND he has a girlfriend. Let it lie and move on.
klovesj110603
Jul 28, 2007, 06:45 PM
Its true if you want to get over someone you have to have your space to do a little soul searching. It is very hard but people pick themselves up everyday. And if you know he has a girlfriend and he still tries to hook up with you it shows you he would cheat on her and if you were together he might do it to u. Just tell him you need your space and when you are away from him altogether for a while you will start to feel better. Hope I could help
Jiser
Jul 29, 2007, 09:26 AM
Your mistake, deal with it and go no contact.
mileyrocks0
Jul 29, 2007, 09:47 AM
Yes this is very normal I broke up with my boy friend and I thought about him all the time I think this happens to all girls