Does it count as having sex if you've fooled around a lot and sort of started to have sex but then I stopped it cause it really hurt and I didn't feel quit ready when it came down to actually going all the way? I don't really know if there was actual penetration because I'm a virgin and incredibly sensitive down there and even fingering hurts. So do you think this counts as having sex?

How old are you?

20

Sexually active? Sure.

Intercourse? I don't know. I wasn't there.

Pain might be from not being lubricated enough.

But you sound like you are trying to explain your way into being a virgin or not sexually active. You are. You're engaging in activity that most reasonable people would call sex, and activity that can result in potential sexually transmitted disease and pregnancy.

I think id call that sex.

If it hurt, he went in = sex.

If he went in you with his penis technically you lost your virginity... Congrats

Hello.

Virginity is lost when you allow intercourse (entry). There is no hard and fast rule about how deep he went or if it felt good or not. If you can honestly look at yourself and say you didn't go all the way then I guess you can say it wasn't intercourse.

Good Luck
Dennis777

If he went in you with his penis technically you are a virgin ... Congrats

You mean "are not", right?

you mean "are not", right?

Ooh whoops... Let me edit it

Does it count as having sex if you've fooled around a lot and sorta started to have sex but then i stopped it cause it really hurt and i didn't feel quit ready when it came down to actually going all the way? I don't really know if there was actual penetration because i'm a virgin and incredibly sensitive down there and even fingering hurts. so do you think this counts as having sex?
If your not sue he penetrated you them it goes 2 ways if he did them yes if he didn't them no, honestly though because you are so sensitive mabey you should try to masturbate more or try toys. Get yourself ready. If you don't want anything to penetrate you them clitoral masturbation and they have toys that go in you but no more then an inch. In all honesty if he tried to penetrate you them I would conciderat it sex just unfinished !