Hi now before I start let me say that I love my mum a lot but there is this major issue between us. My every morning starts with the same sound of my mum cursing me or someone in the house about some petty little thing. Its seems that she is never happy with the work other people do. It wasn't much before but from past four years it has gone from bad to worst. I do accept the fact that she does a lot for us but now she herself is never happy about anything. If we aske her to come for a movie with us she'll agree but on are way back home she'll start saying that she wasted her time. She doesn't wants to socialize with people. There are so many small things she says that hurts me the most because I stay at home with her my dad also doesn't spend much time at home just because if he is at home then she has some problem with him. I am 23 n she makes me feel like as if my life is over she has even started commenting on how much I eat, sleep and all the time she says I am too ugly... sometime I feel I should kill myself but its easier said than done.. but if this continues I'll surely do it... someone help me...

At 23 you can get away and have your own life and leave mum.

Hello.

Your Mom needs help, professional help due to what ever happened in her life to make her become so negative. Its not your job to make MOM happy if Mom doesn't want to be happy. Find your own life and when she wants to be part of it in a positive way then great.

Good Luck
Dennis777

There is a lack of love in her life. The only way that you can begin to help someone show love is to introduce them to God. "He that loveth not knoweth not God, for God is love. Instead of a movie, invite your mother to go to church with you. I will be praying for you.

There is a lack of love in her life. The only way that you can begin to help someone show love is to introduce them to God. "He that loveth not knoweth not God, for God is love. Instead of a movie, invite your mother to go to church with you. I will be praying for you.

Please take this elsewhere. They aren't looking to be converted to God. God isn't the answer for everyone you know!

Please take this elsewhere. They aren't looking to be converted to God. God aint the answer for everyone you know!

I agree.

That is why there is a religion board. Here you go : https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/religion/