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touji-za-nai
Jul 21, 2007, 10:26 PM
me and a girl like each other
My age: 16
The girl: 14
right or wrong?
(keeping it simple) =)
WillL300
Jul 21, 2007, 10:31 PM
Nothing wrong with it at all
huno
Jul 22, 2007, 12:06 AM
Nah; go for it. But keep it above the waist.
Shadow300
Jul 22, 2007, 08:33 AM
Not a bad thing, dating is all good and you are close in age, so go for it
danielnoahsmommy
Jul 22, 2007, 08:38 AM
It's OK. Better keep all activity above your cloths
touji-za-nai
Jul 22, 2007, 03:11 PM
Thanks, anyone else got any input?
J_9
Jul 22, 2007, 03:14 PM
As long is there is no sex that is okay. But if you are planning on having sex it may be illegal in your area of the world, thus giving you the title of sex offender.
Also, remember that if you plan on having sex this means that you plan on being a father.
touji-za-nai
Jul 22, 2007, 05:17 PM
As long is there is no sex that is okay. But if you are planning on having sex it may be illegal in your area of the world, thus giving you the title of sex offender.
Also, remember that if you plan on having sex this means that you plan on being a father.
I live in the U.S, so as long as I'm not 18, its OK I thought.
Doesn't matter really, I plan on waiting.
J_9
Jul 22, 2007, 05:19 PM
Glad you plan on waiting. But each state here in the US has different age limits.
alou
Jul 22, 2007, 05:24 PM
Both of you are 2 young , but if she doesn't have any boyfriend , yea of course you should go for it
ScottGem
Jul 22, 2007, 05:26 PM
Too young in what way? Its not uncommon for 16 year old boys to date 14 yr old girls. If you like each other and enjoy each other's company I don't see a problem, Now if you were 18 that would be a big difference.
If, however, you are asking about having sex with her, the answer is yes, she is too young (so are you). Having sex with her can get you arrested for statutory rape in most places.
Wondergirl
Jul 22, 2007, 05:28 PM
A thousand years ago when I was 14 and the guy was 16, we "dated" with other kids, in a group. We went on hikes and hayrides and had square dances and went bowling and went out to eat and for ice cream. A couple of the older guys had cars, but most of the time we got together in a nearby town where most of the kids lived. When I turned 16, the guy and I began dating as a couple.
Like ScottGem said, your age difference isn't too great. In today's world there should be enough to do to keep you from being bored when you're together. Both sets of parents should know this and have met the one not their kid.
ScottGem
Jul 22, 2007, 05:29 PM
I live in the U.S, so as long as I'm not 18, its ok i thought.
Nope, the issue is more the girl's age. If she is underage, you can be charged with statutory rape.
For future reference, please don't ask the same question in multiple forums.
touji-za-nai
Jul 22, 2007, 05:29 PM
both of u are 2 young , but if she doesnt have any bf , yea of course you should go for it
Do u mean too young to date or too young for each other? Too young to date I assume
alou
Jul 22, 2007, 05:31 PM
U assumed right , I meant this . Nevertheless if you like don't let the chance go away :)
J_9
Jul 22, 2007, 05:35 PM
Questions merged.
Now, in the state of Texas the age of consent is 17. However, remember what her dad might do if he finds out you two are having sex, even kissing.
BN61239
Jul 22, 2007, 06:36 PM
Absolutely nothing is wrong. It's a two year difference. Go for it - but don't rush it, she may not be ready for a huge relationship at 14.
touji-za-nai
Jul 22, 2007, 08:51 PM
Absolutely nothing is wrong. It's a two year difference. Go for it - but don't rush it, she may not be ready for a huge relationship at 14.
I'm not ready for a huge relationship at 16 hahaha
BN61239
Jul 24, 2007, 05:34 PM
Don't laugh at peoples answers touji-za-nai. I'm just trying to help. Geesh...
touji-za-nai
Jul 24, 2007, 06:19 PM
Don't laugh at peoples answers touji-za-nai. I'm just trying to help. Geesh...
Don't take it so personally I wasn't laughing at you...
lostinatrance
Jul 24, 2007, 07:01 PM
It's up to you two. If you both don't mind the two year age difference and she's mature enough then I see no problem with it.
XjustxmeX
Oct 18, 2007, 12:27 AM
Go for it!! Go for it!! I am in love (im 14) with this amazing guy (16) don't let him go... im trying to let him know I want him so badly... don't let go whatever you do... if she likes you go for it!! Age gaps fine x
LovingLife
Oct 19, 2007, 12:19 PM
me and a girl like each other
My age: 16
The girl: 14
right or wrong?
(keeping it simple) =)
Nothing is wrong with that
Leidenschaftlich für Wahr
Oct 19, 2007, 12:26 PM
Sure why not
sarahbanana
Oct 20, 2007, 09:35 AM
me and a girl like each other
My age: 16
The girl: 14
right or wrong?
(keeping it simple) =)
I would say its OK considering my boyfriend is 16 and I'm 11.
ScottGem
Oct 20, 2007, 04:08 PM
i would say its ok considering my boyfriend is 16 and im 11.
14-16 is OK, but 11-16 is NOT!!
At 11 you shouldn't even be dating, especially not one on one. And a 16 yr old wants only one thing from an 11 yr old and, at 11 you aren't ready for it.
What do your parents think about this?