I'm really confused. I'm a very sexual person and my husband of 6yrs has lost his sex drive. He is 29 and I'm 30,t his drive has been gone for nearly 3 years now. I would come on to him and he would reject me. This has really affected myself esteem. I don't know how to adjust to this. He doesn't see that there is anything wrong and it's always on his timing. He works all the time even when he comes home and is wrapped up in his job. I want the man I married back and for our love life to be spontaneous not on a time schedule. Can anyone help?

Why is he working so hard? Is there a reason behind that? What is he avoiding. I think that's something that has to be asked and worked out first. As for not wanting sex, I know that my when my husband is tired he only wants to sleep and nothing else.