I'm so lost at the mo I'm 26 and my ex girlfriend is 38. I live abroad and run my awn bar 2 weeks ago my girlfrien told me she wanted space so I gave it to her then last week she ended it we've never argued and the distance has never been a problem she visted regularly. She is moving house at the mo and living at her sisters her 2 children are living at her ex husbands at the mo so she doesn't get to see them much and to top all of that her dad is in hospital with a broken back so she is very busy wyh things . I got very impatient and sent texts sking why she doesn't ring as much or text or msn I went a bit over the top and didn't think what she was going through so she has called it aday I don't blame her as she said I was imature in the way I behaved but I was just scared of loosin her I think she s coming over in a month on hols with kids an her sis and kids I love her to bits and know what I've done wrong I just want to show her I can be mature and that are relationship is worth keeping please I need some advice I'm not going to loose the woman I love so dearly no matter how long it takes to get her back :confused:

It seems like you've learned the first and foremost lesson and that is patience. The next time you peak with her, give her a brief but sincere apology and acknowledge that you realize she has a lot on her plate right now. For her to see that you're willing to wait and are not going to push things will mean a lot to her.