How do I ask a guy out I always end up making one of my friends do it for me... I don't really like 2 do it that way but I don't know how to ask him or atleat how to start the conversation...

Then how do I break up but let them down easy... notes, friends etc are really gay ways of doing it... but I don't know how else...

Either you've got to do it yourself or try sign-language.

XenoSapien