My ex girlfiend and I split up and we were on off until recently when she chose to date another guy a friend of her family that I knew who has a child from a previous relationship!

I knew something was going on before we split an I was well right! But when she started dating this new guy she started ringing me I said why? Because were mates I said we aren't mates and the only reason to contact me is if you could see us having a future together! After about 4 weeks on texts and calls from her that I mainly ignored I told her it was all or nothing she chose nothing!

Then last week she emails me asking if I wanted to go to a concert that she had spare tickets for and said she would offer them me before selling them on? Very confused to were this leaves me? Do I email bk? And if so what do I say?

If she's still with this guy then it would be so weird after the already weird situation!! If she just wants to be mate you think she wouldn't ask me! Unless she wants me to go seperatly as she's going with him! Its all very odd!! What to do?? Wots her game? Friends after I said all or nothing?? Because what would be the point seen as I'm not 16 any more and I'm after something long term! I have enough mates!

I think she's just trying to string you along fella - I'd ignore her email and ignore her full stop. Like you said, you're not 16 any more, you deserve better!

Oh, by the way, I think the title of this post would make a brilliant title for a film! Lol!

No joke but its felt like I've been living in a film for the last 3 months!!