REDorBLACK
Jul 12, 2007, 03:10 AM
Hello, This is the first time I write here. I am really confused and angry and do not know what to do so I need your help and advice.
I am married to a guy for just over a year now, we had a long distant relation for 8 months before. We are from different countries. I love my husband and I am sure he loves me or I was sure that he loves me. The problem started when he went back to his hometown for a business trip, he has a lot of female friends whom I know and developed a very good relation with them. When he came back from his trip, something was changed about him. Two days after he came back, I woke up before him and sat drank my coffee and I don't know what made me open his mobile and see the sms (this was the first time I ever do it) and I found out that he is sending messages to an old friend who she was married but divorced now telling her that she is the love that he will never have and he can't do anything because he loves his wife (ME). After reading this I was so angry but did not do anything and I started reading every night all the messages between them and I know for sure now that they have feelings for each other. I did not tell him anything yet and I don't know what to do. Shall I confront him? Or just shaut up as I know that nothing more will happened between them?
Please help
I am married to a guy for just over a year now, we had a long distant relation for 8 months before. We are from different countries. I love my husband and I am sure he loves me or I was sure that he loves me. The problem started when he went back to his hometown for a business trip, he has a lot of female friends whom I know and developed a very good relation with them. When he came back from his trip, something was changed about him. Two days after he came back, I woke up before him and sat drank my coffee and I don't know what made me open his mobile and see the sms (this was the first time I ever do it) and I found out that he is sending messages to an old friend who she was married but divorced now telling her that she is the love that he will never have and he can't do anything because he loves his wife (ME). After reading this I was so angry but did not do anything and I started reading every night all the messages between them and I know for sure now that they have feelings for each other. I did not tell him anything yet and I don't know what to do. Shall I confront him? Or just shaut up as I know that nothing more will happened between them?
Please help