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little firefly
Jul 11, 2007, 01:53 PM
I'm concerned about my younger sister. She's been best friends with this guy for a couple of years. He was married but separated. He and my sister never had any kind of romantic feelings at all for each other. He had been seeing someone but when his wife filed for divorce he suddenly decided he wanted to try to work things out in his marriage (supposedly for the sake of his young son). Things ended up not working out which really upset him. About a month into the divorce proceedings he suddenly decides that he has fallen in love with my sister. She thinks it's the real thing, but I feel that she is a rebound to help him over the loss of his marriage. This guy has a habit of falling in love too quickly and easily. Does anyone have any advice. I don't want to see her get hurt. I went through a similar situation myself and I know how it feels to be heartbroken.

talaniman
Jul 11, 2007, 03:32 PM
If she refuses to listen then stand back and be there when her heart is broken. She like most of us have to find out by ourselves about life and love.

Lolitah_xx
Jul 11, 2007, 05:20 PM
Yea I think he's just using her but then again you really don't know.. I guess she has to just see for herself because you have to go through certain things so you learn 4rm it but hopefully it don't get to that point but let your sister know what you think and hope that she listens and takes your advice