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Beckylee
Jul 9, 2007, 08:56 PM
My boyfriend and I live together:) and I have just started working sundays so I don't spend much time with him on weekends because when I'm home he is on the computer..
And one morin before work we got it on but I didn't have time to make him ;) lol if you no what I mean;) but he didn't care.. the next day I was on the computer with him and I was looking up something on Google and the sex thing came up I was like what the hell he went all red and he was like lets talk about it I kept doing what I was doing.. but I couldn't sit there anymore and went off and cryed lol he said he was sorry and would never do it again he said I left him horning so he wanked off but sunay night I asked him did you wank off today he said no he so he lyed to me.. he said he loves me but I don't no anymore.. he tells me all the time that he love me.. he knows pornos wrong when you have a girlfriend... I feel like he wants to be with someone else I must bore him but we get it on all thime time so what's his deal I don't know how to take this.. this is the first time on this site so I hope this isn't to long lol.. tell me what you think :confused:

tashamarie80
Jul 9, 2007, 09:59 PM
What is wrong with looking at porn when you have a girlfriend? Get into it with him and you 2 can do it together sometimes, as long as he prefers you over the computer it is OK, there is no reason to cry about it and I think the bigger question is what is your deal? You sound like you are insecure and there is no reason to be. I am a girl, I do watch porn with my boyfriend, he watches it himself sometimes, we still have a fine sexual relationship. All the girls on the screen and in mags look way better than I do but they are fake and he knows it.

Synnen
Jul 9, 2007, 10:17 PM
See also THIS thread https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/what-he-thinking-108379.html

Skrypt
Jul 9, 2007, 11:10 PM
It's probably just to satisfy his sexual drive. That doesn't mean he's fallen out of love with you at all.