I just wanted to know how long I should wait before I should get back with my boyfriend, because he told me last night about 2:00 a.m. that we needed to take a break. I asked him why and he said that he wasn't sure, then he said he couldn't explain why. Then, his friend called him and then called me back saying that he said we were going to get back together but he need to think about his problems. BUT HE Didn't TELL ME WHAT THE PROBLEMS WERE AND THAT MAKES ME THINK THAT HE DID SOMETHING BEHIND MY BACK. But I'm not sure though. And it makes me so mad that he can push me to the side to think about his problems, but its o.k. to still be with his friend all the time and I know he don't think about his problems when he's with his friend.

I think that you should talk about what's going on and work every out and then you should have the choice to ask him out

At least your mad about it and that's healthy, since he has kicked you to the curb with no explanation. He really cares a lot for your feelings and it shows by the way he treats you. Have some respect and never speak to him again and kiss him and his problem good bye. Unless you like being treated as garbage.

I don't think that he's treating her like garbage, he just need a little time, everybody need there space , to think, relax, or cheat, but there's really nothing to defeat